Whenever you are in a scenario whether you are at the bar, in the gym, at school, work, WHATEVER, it is important that you always try to place the situation within your frame. When you do this you hold ALL of the power. I've noticed (at the bar the other night) that when my charisma is at full capacity it's as if I can do no wrong, people love me, people teach me what they know, women's vaginas must explode because I can sense their horniness from a mile away. I help guys get laid from my presence alone because their women are vying for my attention, so they're loud, obnoxious and flirty with whoever is sitting next to them. Women get out of THEIR chairs and come talk to ME, the short Asian dude in the corner. But I don't budge, I am a rock and you have entered my frame. Whenever my charisma is maxed out I think to myself, "feel free to feed off my energy, because I am the leader in this scenario."

Gentlemen, always try to maintain frame and composure. Even when you are drunk out of your mind.

Ps: sometimes it's okay to let other men be the alpha in a situation, I.E. my dad is my alpha because he provides for me and I depend on him for guidance.