Has anyone taken a girl/woman out to eat but not payed her bill? What happened?

[deleted] · 2019-09-13T07:18:05+00:00

I usually said before hand it would be separate checks, usually nothing too crazy. They are really good at holding it in, letting you think its all ok, then letting it all out later out of nowhere in the most unrelated circumstances.

MenGoingTOWin · 2019-09-13T06:33:15+00:00

She paid mine.

deeznutsbeswingin · 2019-09-13T06:51:45+00:00

Have had many tinder girls buy my drinks the first meetup. Usually the 25-27yo’s. Otherwise I just ask for the bills, always plural, and pull the girl back to my place. Just act like it’s normal and she will too. Frame 101

Caveat though: I don’t ever take girls out to eat. I match girls on tinder, meet for drinks, escalate to sex, and then turn her into a booty call maybe. Sometimes I’ll take them along with me on cool shit I’m doing but I’ll tell them beforehand how much it will probably cost them so they have a heads up

arapaima12345 · 2019-09-13T07:38:46+00:00

I always assume we split expenses, especially on a first date (later you can alternate).

I've been on various dates and only one girl subliminally expected me to pay for her. She came from south America and I imagined it was custom there unlike here in Europe.

Needless to say, I immediately lost attraction to her and broke up soon.

Always expect a fair treatment from women. Anything less than that is putting yourself into a submissive position.

They wanted equal opportunities, now they have to pay for it. If you are paying on a first date, you're no better than men who enable feminists.

deeznutsbeswingin · 2019-09-13T06:41:13+00:00

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cryptomoonlanding · 2019-09-13T08:00:06+00:00

I don’t do dinner dates, I don’t do dates, but especially not lunch/dinner.

TheBoneIdol · 2019-09-13T10:08:55+00:00

Girl bought me dinner on our first date once I had her pay as kind of a joke but she went with it she was super hot too. We ended up dating for a year best girlfriend I ever had

deeznutsbeswingin · 2019-09-14T01:12:00+00:00

I just came back to this thread and holy shit. You guys are all thinking like simps. You missed 50% of the red pill. You missed that you’re supposed to improve yourself and learn to redraw your boundaries, and then hold the fucking line.

Jesus. I like you guys but I think I need to start posting content to help you out. I keep seeing guys who are stuck in stage one of trp in r/mgtow and any mgtow related content. And I’m all for mgtow, I certainly am one, but it seems like you guys got stuck in the anger phase. I might try and fix that.

Anyway, no hard feelings. I’ve been there and it sucks but it gets so much better if you keep setting your sights higher and higher. Promise.

Just4notherDude2 · 2019-09-13T06:39:19+00:00

Do drinks count?

DannyTTT55 · 2019-09-13T14:39:42+00:00

I set a date up and usually I go for coffee, this girl was pushing for dinner even suggesting a place we should go (expensive)

I went along with it but knew how it's gonna go

Basically, I drank nothing but water and told her I was fasting that day. I wouldn't even try any of the food she offered and at the end she hesitantly paid, but I could see it hurt her

Electronic_Record · 2019-09-13T17:56:08+00:00

veritas

caesar_salad1 · 2019-09-13T15:02:46+00:00

Whenever I meet my ex who happened to be a good friend before, we split. Also, I don't offer to pay until the "relationship" makes some headway. If you don't like it, find someone else.

Title	Has anyone taken a girl/woman out to eat but not payed her bill? What happened?
Author	dangrcia09
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	September 13, 2019 6:26 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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