I feel there's need for a new category of masculinity. There's the Alpha who exudes an aggressive persona, carefree , over relies on his masculinity and sexual urges with no thought for his future and is usually exposed in his 40s as a bum, a good for nothing and a man with no self control. Then there's the Beta Male, lacking in self confidence and belief, always critical and harsh on himself, constantly overthinking everything to no end, usually finds himself at the mercy of the other sex, this kind of male rarely finds pleasure in his youth and even in the latter years when the fruits of his labor begin to manifest it's his spouse and children that truly reap the benefits never him. Then there's the third kind of Male, that's rarely talked about....the Omega. The Omega is the kind of male who has a sense of direction coupled with discipline and hard work. He's a natural leader of men, he has a certain characteristic nature that draws people to him..he also has a level of maturity and wisdom growing up, uncommon among his peers. He's confident and selfself-assured, and has the kind of resolve that doesn't waver. He lives life with purpose. He's not immune to the naivete of adolescent love but he learns from it and waxes stronger as a result. He is tender when he needs to be and firm when the situation demands it. The Omega is the harmonization of strength and intellect...the Omega is what we should all aspire to for he is a real man.