Ok fellas I’m interested in thoughts/feedback so I can be getting better always as a man.

This is a story about a girl and it goes like this:

We were in the same school program (Respiratory Care) together. She was engaged from the beginning of the program and I didn’t talk to her much. Beginning of the 2nd year of the program, I say something randomly to her and we start interacting. She gives me dead on eye contact constantly and wants me to sit by her, etc. Now, I was still at this point in the squalor of woman worship and working through some serious mommy issues with an ex. This girl endured long conversations with me about all of my bullshit wining, and I dug around (as a good friend might) into her personal life as well. I called her my friend and overtly placed her in the friend zone because she was engaged. Over time I meet her fiance and become friendly with him. He’s a very successful welder at 23 with a house, truck, and union job. I was legitimately impressed by this dude’s dudeness. Now comes a part that I wasn’t prepared for...this chick comes onto me a couple months before their wedding. We start fucking and we’re doing things like playing footsie under the table at a dinner with her boy sitting right next to her. I was so awestruck by it all that I thought it was super hot she was doing this stuff and I was so flattered by her choosing me. Anyway, her boy finds out she kissed me a couple weeks before the wedding so I’m uninvited to the wedding, etc. He didn’t push further in his questioning though, which was odd to me and he married her. She’s still coming over to my place about every week or two and she’s left a silicon wedding band by my bed for months. This whole situation was good for me I’m thinking, because our previous friendship had actually been nice and now I’m getting my soul sucked out of my dick too. She’s had scares of him finding out before and I’ve said things to him when he caught her texting me like “I don’t owe you anything bro.”...which she said was the perfect response. Anyway, over time my beta-ness has come creeping back around again and I perceived a bit of a drop in her respect for me, as well as the fact that she is married, having her cake and eating it too lying constantly to her husband. I got red pilled pretty hard by schopenhaur the other day and today I texted her husband telling him his bitch had been fucking me since before their wedding. When he asked why I told him my thought was that he actually deserves the respect of being told the truth and having her spend his money to come and suck my dick just isn’t right. Of course she calls me 3 times and asks me to call her back, which I perceive as her wanting to do damage control and/or take out her anger on me.

My reasoning was personal in that I wanted to destroy my pussy worship and live in reality with women - meaning that I don’t believe she ever wanted to be my friend, but based on some of her comments had targeted me earlier on and was waiting for a chance to cheat...meaning that I am just another link in her hypergamous chain and she’ll drop me the moment I stop serving her purpose. So pretty much it was up to waiting it out and letting her win, or taking control and coming out on top.

What do ya’ll think? Roast me good and ask questions. I want to know if anyone thinks I should have just kept the pussy coming when she wanted to come to me? What about the idea of taking care of a fellow brother and waking him up to the reality of women? I think he’ll probably still stay with her, but maybe she’ll submit now and be sorry so their relationship will improve?