Been dating trust fund baby for 2 years and considering the next step and my concern is that I will become her asset manager, errand boy, yard keeper, maintenance man. My out of pocket maintenance expenses are already adding up.

Remember, big assets among families with money are often wrapped up in trusts and moved around like financial instruments. Meanwhile, spending money is often distributed in an effort to avoid taxes and is therefore VERY LIMITED. In other words, she may live in a mansion but she only lives on $30k a year!! So women like this often seek men to help supplement maintenance costs on their assets and their social lives.

Over time I can easily imagine spending substantial amounts of my hard earned money supporting her and her assets. No skin off her back.

Any ideas how to ensure this doesn't happen? Pay my house off in advance? Put my name on her house? Get Married? Thoughts????