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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Side Notes She interested in MMF which I might give her if the FFM goes down well
So, you're negotiating desire? (And just no on the whole STD approach and believing anything a woman tells you.)
[–]3whatsthisgarg2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not only that, guy doesn't know two-women-one-man is a threesome, and two-men-one-woman is a gang bang.
[–]Cityinahouse points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
For your amusement TRP. I give you the street definition of Threesome
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=threesome
[–]3whatsthisgarg1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was just fucking with you (poor choice of words there, actually). Trying to be comical. No judgment.
Most shit in TRP is extremely heteronormative. I happen to agree with that. But, you can do whatever you want, have fun.
If you're living life doing what you want, man, you are in the top 10% of humans of all time. Think about that.
Also, regrets are a funny thing: it's always better to regret something you HAVE done than something you HAVEN'T done. I doubted that just a little when I first heard it when I was about 20 (and had already done a lot of shit that I SHOULD HAVE regretted that I didn't), but now I'm past 50 and I KNOW it is true.
[–]yummyluckycharms1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wonder how many of the people posting have had threesomes based on these responses.
First of all, the easiest way of getting a threesome is when the woman goes out and recruits the third vs if the guy does it. Women automatically have their shit shield up when a guy approaches them, but if a woman saunters over and whispers in her ear, its amazing how much higher the probability of a threesome goes up. By the very definition of the term, you cannot lead in this aspect of the relationship, but instead one has to take a passive stance.
Secondly, the MMF is a red flag - either because she really means it which translates you quickly become a cuck, or its a quid pro quo situation, or its her trying to dissuade from the idea of a threesome. None of them are good outcomes vs the scenario above where its the woman living out her bi-sexual fantasy.
OP: avoid picking up at concerts - poor logistics and kino build up is uneven. A bar / pool hall is much better as you can build up the kino to a boil, and then you can immediately head out to your place vs at a concert where the bands might still be playing and you have to wait it out.
Handle the STD thing just as you would a regular date.
[–]Shiva-Lingam0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
1) this is not a field report
2) you lead in the relationship: you don't negotiate, you give reasonable concessions - and an MMF is not one of them. On the other hand it is also reasonable to not expect her to participate in a FFM if she finds out she doesn't like it or if she's not interested - just have sex (or a threesome) with other women without involving her.
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