Ok I’m just going to start off by saying I’m pretty certain I am in fact the asshole. What I’m looking for here is to get some insight on wether she is also the asshole as well. Like we are equally the asshole. Sounds stupid but I don’t have anyone else to talk about this with and I need to.
Anyways long story short was with this girl for 9 years. We had 2 daughters together. I was 16 and she was 19 when we had our first. We had a long relationship most of which we were both pretty much kids. We both did terrible things to each other and it was toxic but we loved each other. Anyways while we were together we took thousands of videos and pictures of sexual acts that were not really your normal stuff. Kind of extreme fetish type stuff. She always told me stuff like she would never cheat on me she loved me more than anything blah blah blah. In response almost jokingly because of how extreme the acts we were doing I would tell her if she ever did cheat on me that I would post them. At one point she was even into the idea of being posted online and we posted a bunch of things on reddit and other places etc. I have verification photos as proof when we did it.
Ok so 2 years ago we were obviously doing terrible I fucked up in more ways than you can imagine and I lost the only person I ever loved besides my kids. She told me she didn’t love me anymore on my birthday, afterwards spent 6 months cheating on me with one of her co workers whom she always told me not to worry about. Guy was divorced cheated on his wife. 10 years older than me etc. I caught her cheating on me a week before Christmas. I was in shock. She left me for him took my kids broke the lease on our house. Immediately brought him around my daughters. Took all the money I had. Took everything really.
Went on multiple vacations out of state with this man with my money not one or two but a dozen. Looked happier than I’ve ever seen her flashed this man and his son off to everyone pretty much replaced me in my daughters lives with this man I mean brought this guy to their cheerleading practices that I used to go to. Field trips with teachers that had taught both of our girls and had seen me pick them up from school.
I was homeless I lost everything I lost my mind my heart. I never had any family besides them.
I had these pictures and im 100% the asshole because I posted them but is she not the asshole too? Am I just fucking crazy. This is fucked up I know.
Btw I’m completely good now got my own place. Save everything I have for my kids and that’s all I care about. The dude broke up with her after a year of dating now she’s single and lives with her parents.
there doesn't seem to be anything here