She was fat before she became my girlfriend. We were working in the same workplace. She was not popular, shy type, the kind of girl who you will not notice unless you know her more. I courted her because I learned that we had a lot in common, especially the online games we play and the books we read.
Our relationship was going smooth, she was a virgin and I was her first even though we are now in our late 20s. We had a happy relationship, with no major problems. But after a while, i noticed that she is getting heavier. I know it because she loves it when I carry her on my back. I never told her this directly because I did not want to upset her, but I tried to convince her to eat less and go with me whenever I jog or just walk on the park. Told her itll be fun.
She told me that she knows what I was doing-- that I am trying to prevent her from getting even fatter. But she added that others' opinion doesn't matter and she only cares about mine. In response, I said that I was only worried about her health (she was always tired). This seemed to work and she started going walking and jogging with me. Our dates became walking and biking in the park from our used to eating out in a fastfood restaurant.
Her weight became normal after months of our healthy routine. She's more active this time, and a lot more attractive. She also got a job offer in a different company, which is a once in a lifetime opportunity-- the salary is a lot higher than her present work.
In effect of her slimming down, it seems that more guys notice her this time. Every now and then I catch her reading messages from a random guy from her new work. I asked her about it, and she told me that it was nothing, and those guys are just looking for a "victim" especially the newcomers.
Until recently I learned that she is their new "victim" and she is having sex with some of her officemates. Yes, not only one, but many.
My suspicion grew and I tried to learn a lot about her to "hack" her facebook account by supplying answers to her secret questions. After reading her messages, I learned that one of her officemates lives in a condo near their workplace, and that they will go there every afternoon break to have a quickie. The messages goes something like this-- "Quickie time? I hope you're wearing the lingerie I bought you". Other guys she had sex after drinking on their "team building". Heck they are even having sex on the public restroom. She is now a total bitch.
I'm thinking maybe now she is enjoying the attention that guys give to her which she did not feel before. But regardless I'm still breaking up with her tonight.
Now I just wish that she becomes fat again and think of the guy who accepted and transformed her when she was once fat.
Update: I received a text from her saying "I'm sorry". I think she knows I opened her facebook. Now I'm having the urge of just fcking upload screenshots of her conversations.
Update: It's 9pm in our time zone and looks like she won't come at my place tonight, even though I told her we had to talk. God only knows whose place she will end up to. I calmed down a bit and decided not to upload her messages anymore, but I had them all saved. I will also be sending them to her sister after this edit, apparently her sister knows something is wrong. I was pretty close to her family, so I guess they should know. I finished gathering her things at my apartment and gave her the week to collect them or else I will throw them all away. I also filed leave for the week and booked ticket to go somewhere else. She has my keys so she can collect her things anytime. Will be telling the guard not to let anyone except her to come inside the building and to collect the keys after she leaves. And yes, I will surely be getting tested. And yes, she will be getting fat again, so if she is reading this enjoy your spotlight moment.
P.S To those saying that I "transformed' her is a bit much, maybe you're right. It was her choice to slim down, I just convinced her to do it. I just still can't think why she did it. I thought everything was okay. I guess it was the timing-- her getting more attractive, new environment away from me, freedom, and attention she got which is a hell of a drug.
P.P.S In my defense, I got suspicious because aside from the messages, the way she dressed changed a lot. Don't get me wrong, I was genuinely happy she can now wear the clothes that can't fit her before. She looked good. And I was happy she was happy. But it got sexier and sexier. No, I did not prevent her from wearing anything because I don't want to be that kind of boyfriend. But I remember one day before we left for work I jokingly said "Be careful other guys might get a different idea". I guess they really got the idea.
Sorry I'm not a native English speaker but I tried my best.
[–]DangZagnut40 points41 points42 points (1 child) | Copy Link
All women are whores in the end. It's all based on who they can attract.
[–]topgearfan193 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
All women are gold-digging whores. Most men just don't know it yet.
[–]devok1[🍰] 29 points30 points31 points (0 children) | Copy Link
TFM had a similar story , he turned a fat ugly girl with a nice personality into a slim girl. She cheated at the first opportunity exactly like that slut , AWALT.
[–]crispinosk819 points20 points21 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Awalt case N°837365337
[–]jackalhead14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Every woman wants to be a whore. Some just don't have the confidence. Give them that confidence and like clockwork, they're all instantly the biggest sluts you've ever seen.
[–]Blissbynature10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Guy handled that really well. Good for him.
[–]harrison_wheels8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Once she has the opportunity to be a whore, she will take it. Why do you think Muslim/Christian women start sleeping around once they leave for college? People like to think that environment and upbringing contribute to female promiscuity, but that is incorrect. Hypergamy is in their nature, their very being. She could be a "shy" autistic mormon, and she'll still cheat if offered the chance.
AWALT.
[–]strainer1236 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
She has your keys? Time to change the lock, trust me on this.
[–]MattFoley793 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Woman losses weight and bangs a lot of guys. What are you gonna do?
[–]MGTOW-Mando2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Wish him the best on his flight. I'm sensing a MGTOW in the making, who knows at least now he knows not to be pushed around and stay with a slut like her.
[–]shun23112 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude's a secret redpiller and his GF doesn't know, good for him to not hesitate to dump that whore
[–]vitruvius_legion1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
She just used you full stop, you were there to be her shrimp for emotional dump while she was whoring around. Who knows, maybe she even lied to you about "being virgin". Have you thought that she just played an act with you since the beggining? Maybe she was just hidding her slut side. She knew what she was doing all along, you were just the "motivating simp".
You said you were doing "everything right", let's assume it true, so if she was/is having sex with everything that moves, she probably already was used to that before. Maybe that kind of attention stopped when she became fat...
Because you only met her when she was fat. And she was in her late twenties when you met her...
In case the "virgin story" is 100 truthful and you were close enough with that family, then you should share all you know with them. She abused you and disrespected you, remind them that. You didn't break up because "it didn't work ", you did break up because she is no girlfriend but a total slut and the city bike. If the family is god-fearful and responsible you can believe they will disown that filthy scumbag of whore and she will be cut off forever from the family tree. If not... shame on the family, dishonor for them.
I know to tell the story shames you, but believe me, there's nothing good in letting free pass on someone who abused you like that. Within all your means and acting a smart way, make her pay. Whores like it as long as no one mentions they're whores, once everybody knows, game over.
[–]jonsarik0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
No disrespect to this response but it's obviously coming from a place of anger, and not enlightenment. I know the OP may be angry. But you need to look on the positive. You now KNOW what you're up against. You now UNDERSTAND the nature of MGTOW. It's not hate them bitches. It's GO YOUR OWN WAY. You got off easy: you don't share a child, a marriage, and assets. You learned a valuable lesson and you learned it young.
Now it's up to you to go forward with your eyes wide open. There's no need for simmering anger and hate. Just focus on yourself. Enjoy the company of a woman or two if you must, but now you know where not to let it lead. Go your own way, focus on yourself and your own happiness. Don't try to "save" anyone but yourself and men who know the value of appreciation and gratitude.
[–]bman00011 point [recovered] | Copy Link
Every virgin is just a slut in standby mode.