Hey MGTOW, what is your monk mode story this far and how has it been for you?

urbanphil0s0phy · 2019-08-01T15:57:09+00:00

Similar to some of the memes you see out there, after divorce saw the train wreck of dating options. Fat crazy bitches who expect 10s when they're 4s. Did have a friends with benefits thing for a short while but wasn't satisfying at all. Then after a while the libido just dropped right off. Also. love my solitude so no real need for companionship, especially the type of companionship that stresses you the fuck out.

It's great, I love it and don't miss a thing really.

DangZagnut · 2019-08-01T15:23:45+00:00

Just lost any interest in casual sex. So it just sort of worked out that way. It's the same as why I don't own a cat, just....don't really care about cats. I've got a lot of other shit to do and women don't factor into it.

And that's the exciting story of monk mode.

where_muh_good_mens · 2019-08-01T16:00:51+00:00

Being non-chained is the best freedom a man could ever hope. You just don't realize it until you are knee-deep in the shit and freedom can only be found at the end of a bottle.

rich_mc_78 · 2019-08-01T16:08:28+00:00

Wife #2 was what I thought was a unicorn. Early 30s, good looking, never-married, no-kids, very religious virgin saving herself for marriage. Thought this would be the forever.

Got married in 2015 expecting it to be on like Donkey Kong.

Anyway, it wasn't. Married for 2.5 years. Can count the number of times there was penetration on one hand. Can count the number of times sex didnt end with her crying with zero fingers.

Spent $37k on different physical therapies for a thing called "vaginismus" and still couldn't get laid.

Then when that didnt work, her and the mental therapist decided that since someone she knew as a kid got busted for being a pedo, that she must have been molested too, but her brain was blacking it out to where she had no memories of it whatsoever.

Couple all this with the fact that she refused to contribute financially to the household and she hated my kids from marriage #1 and it was just too much.

Moved out 18 months ago from #2 and tomorrow will be my 1 year Un-niversary.

Life is so much calmer now and I don't feel like I constantly need to vomit. I now have a nice house, a bad ass car, 2 motorbikes, my son is over all the time, and more money in the bank than I've ever had. Things are good and theres no way I'm gonna let it get messed up by a relationship. Theres absolutely no benefit I could possibly think of that would make me go back.

Yeah, good sex would be nice. But it's been since 2012 since I've had any that was enjoyable, and plenty of it that wasn't enjoyable since then. No interest in even trying again at this point.

crityouallday · 2019-08-01T16:41:49+00:00

Last dated 2005- she joined military and came back married

Last sexual encounter 2010 paid a girl had some fun

Current- these moments are fun i reached the age where more than half of my friends are married loads of weddings attended. Only one out of the bunch of guys probably struck gold and has a decent woman everyone else is cucked their money is not theirs and all ended up alcoholics and invalids. I even heard the phrase a happy wife is a happy life Hahahahahahaha

SuperChadCurryLad · 2019-08-01T15:58:41+00:00

I was diagnosed with a mood disorder, and after being on medication for a few months my severe depressed fell away. My incessant thoughts about the opposite sex have mostly gone away too, and I'm able to fully concentrate on my goals and hobbies. .

I love modern medicine.

Aposematicly · 2019-08-02T01:07:01+00:00

It has been 5174 days since my last sex. I am very content. or even continent. Work about 1/3 to 1/4 as many hours, have every boy toy I could dream of. Significant assets with real estate, bullion, currency. No debt. Able to be a good son and a cool uncle. Self employed. No shit tests ever. Zero tolerance for drama.

Title	Hey MGTOW, what is your monk mode story this far and how has it been for you?
Author	kokymac
Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	August 1, 2019 3:18 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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