now that im finished the rage phase i can reminisce about the past, the good and the bad. heres a old pic of me, ex wife and my son who was 5 at the time. ill admit i was a slave to her and unhappy most of the time but i also kind of miss the memories and moments we shared. i hardly get to see my own child anymore because the courts sided with her, of courts they did, because me the father is a bad man who only pays 40% of his engineering jobs wage to her in alimony. i dont even care about the money i just want to see my kid more than once every two weeks. anyone else in my situation?