because Women know ... that women are Women ... and because women know …. how ANGRY or pussy worshiped men are going to be as a reaction to them realizing that women are women. it is tough for men to accept it and women know it...… SO, They try to give you advice... I understand why they give this advice.... the common ones are

  1. just be yourself. and 2) be confident.

  1. JBYS is because men have to naturally be either an alpha or a beta. Women want to be who you want them to be so they can get your attention ( I knew this one woman who said that men like to waste their money on women because they are sad and lonely...WOMEN ARE RP). Men have to differentiate themselves based on their own nature. So men cant have the book of life written or else the NATURAL ALPHA wont differentiate himself amongst the other ALPHA CLONES.

2) Be confident, is good advice because women will destroy you for your weakness. Learning that women are prostitutes naturally takes a lot of inner resolve to push through. Learning that women have no loyalty. That women will never be a friend. Boys grow up thinking women can be everything. from best friend to wife etc. but they soon learn that women are actually nothing because they don't want anything besides SEX.

the toughest part of masculinity is to wake up to the societal truths. It seems that 'male ego' has a hard time accepting how impersonal nature is. Women don't really have a hard time accepting nature... I think because they don't have that personal relationship with the world. They get personal when it comes to social stuff tho.