Women aren't attention seeking men are

I think it is such a myth among red and black pill men that women are attention seekers. Sure they my enjoy having a good looking guy giving them attention but it is not like they were actively seeking them out. More often men are the extrovert and women are introverts and seem to shy away from social situation. Why else would men outnumber women in online dating. Women almost never feel the need to look for love or sex if a attractive came into her life and tried to get this from her than yes she will want it at that moment but women don't spend there private times thinking about boys like in those Hollywood movies. Any women want to tell me if I'm right or wrong on this or do women actively think about love and sex let me know.