My wife's habits are really starting to gross me out.

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Throwaway for obvious reasons.

Me(30M) and my wife(30F) have been together for over 14 years. Over the last 6 months she has taken to some quirks that really are absolutly disgusting.She is constantly popping her zips and blackheads around me(ive given up asking her to please do it in the bathroom). She never wears makeup and refuses to do her hair. Ontop of this she has gone from a petite 140 to 250,and most of this weight gain came after the birth of our son 6 years ago.The weight problem has gotten so bad she is now diabetic. She also has a nasty wart(that she refuses to see a doctor for) that she actively cuts and cleans in our living room.

Ontop of all this we havent had sex in 6 months.Not for lack of trying on my part she just doesnt give a fuck about it anymore.

I love this women with all my heart but when i am around her now she just is gross to me.I want to make this marriage work but i feel like im the only one trying.

Anyone go through something like this?I need help.