For "men going your own way" you guys spend a LOT of time just shitting on the personal choices of other people. If you're doing your own thing why do you care? Just ignore it.

I support the idea of wanting to better yourself and not be dependent on a significant other by why does your growth need to piggyback off of the negativity of others? Why do you have to put down other people just to feel better about yourself?

Go see the world and take up your hobbies and find personal joy in life and then share that here. Dont do that while also pissing your pants about Stacy giving a blowjob. That's not your concern so move past it.

You will never grow as an individual if you constantly compare your growth to the growth of others. Just live your life, yeah????