Many of us have heard this saying before and there is a reason why it exists. Many women, not all, have normalized their childish reactions to emotional trials. This is why women have theses sorts of quotes flying around and men don’t.

Relationships are NEVER going to be fair to you. She has access to sex whenever she wants. You don’t. If she wants to hurt you, she can. You’ve been taught your entire life that guys cheat more than women, and that men are “pigs.” I don’t think this is true at all, women are just better at keeping secrets. If prostitution was legal in the US maybe it would be different. But women can start new relationships at the drop of a hat, sex is on their side.

You get in a fight and she could easily cheat. She says “we need to take a break” she will cheat, it’s her free pass. After she does, do you think she’s going to tell you? You’re her meal ticket bud. Do you think she wants to be homeless? Move back in with her parents? Do you think she wants to let all your mutual friends know she fucked her coworker and destroyed her own relationships or family? Women are obsessed with status and she doesn’t want that kind of reputation.

If she truly wants to end the relationship she will gaslight you until you leave and claim abuse. How many times do we have to see this behavior til we wake up? When is the last time you seen her take responsibility for anything? Even the small stuff? It’s not in the female nature. Evolutionary, it does not benefit them one bit.

I’ve got a photography account on Instagram and it has led me to see what women truly are. I’ve had at least 4 people’s wives hit me up “to go out and have a drink and talk about photography” in the past 6 months. I’ve seen enough cheating from the male perspective in my life to forever tarnish my views on relationships. These happy couples you see on social media, it’s only temporary at best, if it’s even real at all. I could go on and on but many of you already know, it’s cheater’nam out there and men are the ones left defenseless.

Look, here’s the thing. We are attracted to youth not women. I’ve never met a women over 35 that I’ve lusted for. Men, on the other hand, have so many advantages. Go to the gym and you can be attractive into your 50’s. When you hit 30 you will be surprised how the tables have turned. When you hit 40 you will be laughing at the idea of jealousy.

If I have any advice it’s to be good to yourself. Don’t feel bad if you feel insecure or lonely. I’ve been with some beautiful girls and the sex is great but the other 23 and 1/2 hours are awful. Don’t let yourself get trapped into a lifetime of doing shit you don’t want, to impress people you don’t like, for a girl you never really loved.