Hello everybody,

This is for those who don’t think that MGTOW is worth it.

Actually, one of my friends posted the most horrible thing I ever read in my life on FB which inspired me to write this post.

Guess what it is ... he posted a huge poem about a bitch he met 2 months ago and how much he loves her and all that shit. All this on his Facebook page and in public mode. Shit was that funny. And he was so much about being red pill and shit 😂😂😂 I swear to God.

I’ll be very short. I’d been with a girl for like 5 months I guess, she fell so hard for me that she got rid of her 3 year relationship to be with me and even somehow promise to become my wife someday. At the same time, we’d fight from time to time, and she didn’t realize she disrespected me at time. I closed my eyes and forgave her with it because I thought that’s what you do when you love someone. And I really loved her so I became a beta for some time. I decided that for once I would care because apparently that’s what you’re supposed to do and it seemed natural right ?! I hugged her, kissed her, asked her out on dates, she started living at my place etc. Once she was mine she got used to my lovin’ and started taking me for granted. She barely ever initiated kissing, hugs, sex etc. We still fucked like crazy but you know I was showing I care all the time.

And that behavior of mine grew on me. I hated every second of it. Every time I was hugging her, I felt like I was demander her validation. And her hugging me from time to time was like a trophy 🤭.

And what ended up happening ? She dumped me because her stupid friends said so on Christmas Eve. Then on new year, she called me because she missed me. I accepted her back without thinking but got back to being myself again.

She wouldn’t get as much texting, calls etc. She was doing all the initiating. I just don’t like this. Know that I moved to another country a few weeks back so texting and calling was all we had left.

And I also decided to stop acting because I’m not an actor. I’d rather piss people off than not be myself for my own dignity.

So I stopped acting like I care anymore because I don’t want to. I did love her but I never felt like hugging or anything to show love still did it because I thought that’d show her I love her.

All that bullshit annoyed me to the bone and I got back to my old ways.

She pissed me off one day during a phone call. She was expecting me to be vulnerable with her while she felt like it was too much for her to open up too much. That got me angry, and I just told her what I think about her opinion and hung up. Completely ghosted her. There’s been many things that pissed me off about her but since I was giving “caring” a chance I thought I’d ignore some stuff. But that time I didn’t.

And you know what ? I’ll never go back to giving my power away to a woman. Guess what happened ? She started chasing hard and insulting me for bullshit I didn’t do which made me laugh honestly.

The honest thing is that not giving a fuck anymore and just being yourself, going your own way with or without someone feels so good.

You cannot please everyone. Only the real stay.

And guess what. Her friends were talking behind her back telling her to leave me, some told me to leave her because they wanted to hop on my D but acting like nothing is going on and acting like friends when they were around her.

Shit man, you who is reading this : trust me. Stay yourself, say out your thoughts and believe yourself. Don’t try to act and care when you don’t like to show your feelings. To act like people expect you to do if that does not represent you. You’ll make enemies but you’ll make also lifelong friends. Stop hiding yourself behind a beta skin. Show yourself and possess your life.

At the end, I just don’t care and it feels so empowering. I guess you have to see with your own eyes to understand. I did this kind of experience twice before because I thought that showing that you extra care is good like my friend did (even though I was way less stupid hahaha) etc especially with the right girl but no. Go your own way. Women are women. I don’t say ignore them but treat them in a neutral manner. Don’t expect anything and don’t be the beta who gifts her shit and texts her smileys.

If you don’t go your own way completely just know that women will chase you because you don’t give a fuck about them. Most men are betas and chase women. Once you stop chasing and start focusing on your life and career, they’re all over you. But you’re still not showing any interest and it drives them mad.

That is why I puke every time I see a friend post about picking up women anywhere or send me links to read about how to pick up bitches at the club or bar etc. As if you were not enough as a person you have to learn some bullshit to make yourself more fucking likeable. 🖕🏻😂🖕🏻 no fucking way. If I’m not enough for someone, guess what happens ? 🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻

Thank you for reading !