So, after 14 different search terms finally found what i was looking for, after changing search engines. Just 1 article... i think a woman wrote it would be hard pressed to find this info from a mans perspective now. Such a critical topic suppressed... On with the show.

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1. She’s non-confrontational or 2 faced

The healthiest thing about any of the Real Housewives is how intensely they get in each other’s faces at even the smallest indignity. Any person in your inner circle who lets those social slights go, while they instead allow them to eat at their insides, may be adding “arsenic” to her grocery list. Female poisoners tend to not only bottle up what they perceive as an injustice, (everything) but will use that as their justification for why you deserve to be assaulted.

2. She’s not “smart,” she’s clever

If you think about it, poisoning someone requires a certain kind of premeditation that another more impulsive act lacks. Not only does she have to think about the type of potion to use, she has to consider what food she could hide it in, what can sicken versus what can kill, how to keep you from discovering her plan before it’s enacted, how to mask the taste, the color and what subterfuge she can use to get you to consume the tainted edible. She’s not smart, she’s cunning and she has to be in order to get her plan to work.

3. She’s incredibly immature

Experts have found that the most successful poisoners are also the most immature. Just like children they have to get their own way, all the time, and if they can’t, a tantrum won’t do; you will have to go. Like a toddler boldly grabbing a toy from the hands of another, the female poisoner wants what they want, and doesn’t care about your needs.

4. Her parents spoiled her

One of the traits that keeps surfacing in every book, study and article on the personality of a poisoner seems to be that she was treated too well as a child. This type of entitlement that she grew up with goes beyond the usual “you’re so special” trope that has been linked to run-of-the-mill narcissism. The kind of entitlement that this type of spoiled child grows up with is a severe lack of empathy butted up against some very serious Veruca Salt-like “the world revolves around me” attitude. This would explain the heartless, indifferent nature of the crime.

(I will add here this includes grown women with simp husbands who bend over backwards to meet every single want of his wife)

5. A glaring feeling of inadequacy

No one quality paints the picture of an entire personality type, but some qualities are more influential than others. Taken together, the previous four could predict other types of personality issues, but once you add this overwhelming sense of inadequacy to the mix it becomes a highly combustible brew.(If a woman has an intellectual inferiority complex and you are a smart man, watch out.

If she has any inferiority complexes, where you happen to shine... watch out)

6. Vanity

Researchers see this trait over and over but it looks less like someone enamored with their own beauty, and more as someone who has themselves convinced they would never get caught. Mainly because they know they are the most unlikely of criminals. This type of vanity is a confidence, a pride or an arrogance that nobody would ever look at them, of all people, and suspect them of such a nefarious act.

(This includes dumb ass women who see themselves as geniuses. Know-it-all attitude without knowing anything worth knowing.)

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Any men who have dealt with a woman poisoning them, care to add which behaviors to watch out for? Signs?