First time poster but I think I’ll be able to get some good advice here.

So we’ve been together for 5 years now, 1 child together and one on the way. I thought we loved each other a lot but it turns out that was a lie because I know I never could have really loved such a loser.

All he ever does is work and he has a really good job, bringing home 6-figures a year to support me and my family. He is out of the house so much and never helps with the children so I started having an affair with a real man who knows how to dominate me and not be such a pushover and workaholic.

Anyway I’ve fallen in love with my new boyfriend but he’s a personal trainer so doesn’t make great money and I would have to work to maintain the lifestyle I have become accustomed to. How can I best go about this divorce to make sure my new family do not have to compromise our way of life, and still get money from my (soon to be) ex?

All advice welcome.