Basically I have lurked in here to see what the community is saying and I wanted to share a tip with you. I have never been a ladies man but >I always have this exuberant confidence. Maybe it is the Alpha in me but I am starting to treat girls like guys in the sense that I no longer Idolize them I no longer believe in Unicorns aka dream girls after the red pill.

I still believe this sub reddit is a cesspool of horny beta's and virtual Alpha's who seem Alpha like on Social Media but really are Beta like in real life. but I do see the gems here and there. My advice is to always be you in front of girls no matter how much anxiety you have. Another tip do not be afraid of rejections, I am getting rejected plenty of times by girls who have not hit their Post Wall, probably because I am in my early 20s. Nonetheless I am never going to be be a intentional orbiter but I do not mind being one for some girls I know it is not inherently Beta. Hypergamy is real guys but do not let it put you off girls love anything that talks just pretend to care.

Lastly never think of a girl as your dream "wife" that is mentally insane. Once you realise their is plenty of fish in the sea, you can start swimming in and out. I do recommend tinder even though it is not working for me. That one was for the lazy ones who do not go out for social events like clubbing. Do not worry your time will you don't have a post wall unlike girls so relax and do you not MGTOW. Men are Men likewise we need girls just like AWALT.