So my girlfriend of 5 years is at her mothers house until tomorrow. I want to leave her but I feel incredibly guilty for some reason. I wanted her to break up with me but I don’t see that happening. I’ve even rejected sex for 3 months and that hasn’t worked. Our lease runs out in one month and I don’t want to sign up for another year with her.

Should I move all my stuff out, leave and then tell her we need to talk when she gets back? Or do I leave all my stuff in the house, wait for her to return and say it’s not working out for me? I don’t want to cave. I’ve tried before.

I feel guilty guys, I don’t know why, I’m scared. Advice please,