Over come logistical challenges by approaching pulls from a strong situational frame.
Hard frames result from logistical circumstances. They are your logical brain reminding you of work tomorrow, that it would be easier to go straight home rather than go out for food with a relative stranger, or that going into a strangers house could be risky.
Soft frames are the course and flow of the evening. They are situational and serve as the flow of arousal. Having and demonstrating a strong soft frame (ie, having attraction) while going into deciding hard frame challenges will give you an upper hand when pulling to the next area.
For instance, after playing frisbee in the park, getting a coffee, pulling to your house when you have lots of rapport and a dominant frame.
I see a lot more success in doing things in the moment, "right now," rather than foreshadowing. For example, if she parked at your place and then you both went out, pulling her inside after making out, rather than suggest she come up to check out your Pokemon collection 20minutes earlier.
tl;dr (Executive Summary) Certain logistics are best approached after first establishing strong frame. Use emotional momentum (soft frame) to overcome logistical hurdles (hard frame). Best to do things right now than to make plans.
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