A teen in need of life advice

SRK_Tiberious · 2019-01-09T09:57:04+00:00

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Selexus · 2019-01-09T10:13:05+00:00

Hi there and welcome.

I have a son who is in his teens so i have been giving plenty of thought to how i would like him live his life and to see/treat women.

Some of this may be of help to you.

Firstly, you are young. You have time to make mistakes, and learn from them. Don't be afraid to live a life that is fun and rewarding. Just do so with an open mind and enough knowledge to protect yourself. #metoo and false accusations are real. Not to mention STI's and unplanned pregnancy. These are things that it is difficult, and sometimes impossible, to recover from. Know how to avoid them to the best of your ability.

A women is not your goal. A good life, where you are happy with yourself and your position in the world (whatever that looks like to you) is. A woman can be a great compliment to that, but a bad one can turn everything you hold dear to dust.

Learn to love and respect yourself first (this can take years), and then you can spot who truly loves and respects you.

Understand that your young mind/body will drive you toward women. This is a biological drive and is not in your best interests. When you feel pull of the female.....have a wank. Seriously. Only when you have released that biological tension can your brain make rational decisions not based in a biological mating drive.

A man gains the majority of his satisfaction from achievement. Find the thing you are good at (business, football, painting, fishing.....whatever) and excel at it. This is your path to true happiness.

If possible work toward being your own boss, and build enough financial reserves so that you have at least 50% of your income from passive sources (investments, etc). This allows you to step out of the rat race, and do what makes you happy.

Read and think. Don't take all you read as truth. Observe the world around you based on what you have read and decide if you agree or not.

And always remember the greatest power you have is the ability to walk away.

Girl giving you grief....walk away (don't speak, don't argue, just walk)

Boss disrespecting you....find a new job and walk away

Friends taking you for granted......walk away, there are many other good people in this world who will respect you.

The only way people can treat you badly is if you let then. If you are letting them, look inside yourself, and ask why.

You have the possibility of a great life ahead of you. Go for it.

tw1nm3t30r · 2019-01-09T10:00:16+00:00

You best to look out for yourself over anything. You can meet and have a relationship just don't bent over backwards for someone. MGTOW simply is to look out for your well being and success and NOT at the expense of a woman. Your money, your life, your rules, not hers.

Nzt34 · 2019-01-09T10:41:24+00:00

A man should always be going for his own way. A woman should beg him to let her follow him because she is nothing without a man. The reality is different because of countless pussy slaves that have nothing to achieve in their life.

If you choose a woman, a relationship as your main goal. You'll be damned to suffer. This is what happens with men today, wrong priorities.

ilikerelish · 2019-01-09T13:05:13+00:00

Will MGTOW knowledge hinder your high school life? Would having advanced knowledge of stock market prices hinder your trading life? Having knowledge never hurts you. It is up to you if you incorporate the knowledge into your life, or ignore it, shelve it, or follow it religiously. At this stage of your life the only things from MGTOW that I would recommend you strictly adhere to are not cohabitating, and not marrying. Aside from that use your own protection she has no access to, and pull out anyway. You should try the ltr route as a learning experience. It will be valuable knowledge to see the highs and lows, and see how it ends. Just protect yourself sexually, financially, and emotionally.

Title	A teen in need of life advice
Author	cyheat
Upvotes	14
Comments	10
Date	January 9, 2019 9:49 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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