I am feeling so depressed, confused and hopeless and lost :)

ConstantChinner · 2019-07-15T02:02:12+00:00

Never contact her again. And do yourself a favor and stay away from women. They all play games and cheat anyway.

PrinceRaj53 · 2019-07-15T02:07:01+00:00

Everything seemed to be going great until i told her i liked her

There you go. Even you know what went wrong.

debanked · 2019-07-15T02:33:54+00:00

Don't hate women. You can love them or understand them. Once you understand them, it will all make sense. You'll likely bounce around a bit, but once you get over the cognitive dissonance for everything you believed, you'll then find a new beginning. Treat yourself the way you want to treat a woman

Pretentiousartfag · 2019-07-15T02:50:52+00:00

Honestly, that whole ordeal sounds draining. She was slipping away from the start. That's not fair, and it's not your fault. You deserve to open yourself up to a girl whos concern about you lasts. If you see that happening again, feel free to keep your opinions open

RT-AC66U · 2019-07-15T01:59:52+00:00

If you are chasing women you are in the wrong sub.

westnblue · 2019-07-15T02:01:49+00:00

Sounds borderline Incel thinking. Go a fuck a few hookers

Wakeywakeygoblin · 2019-07-15T02:10:46+00:00

Screw that cumdumpster. She sounds like a miserable bag of STDs. That dumb bitch has no idea how relationships work buddy. Keep your head up. Work on you. Go your own way. Don’t let society tell you that you need a girl to be complete.

Edit: a word

104littlebuddy · 2019-07-15T02:15:36+00:00

we’ve been all there brotha

[deleted] · 2019-07-15T02:20:36+00:00

Ok brother. I'm gonna hit you with some knowledge you clearly need but may not want to hear right now. Take it as you will. I've been there before.

A) "I'm too busy" is the oldest and weakest excuse in the book. If women are interested they will MAKE TIME. If they don't see you as worth their time they won't. They do it to men, just as men do it to them. That's a passive way on her part of telling you "I'm not interested". Listen to that and understand it. You didn't pass the test to gain her interest. And you know what, that's ok!

B) Hatred toward women is counter-productive and beneath you. Spending your mental and emotional energy on bitterness will leave you in a dark place. I'm a recovering alcoholic, and I drank because I was bitter at numerous things.

C) Take that hatred and direct it at your own shortcomings. I'm not saying hate yourself. Do NOT fall into that trap. What I'm saying is instead of pursuing women, pursue yourself. Be the man you want to be and respect. If you're introverted then find a social outlet for your interests. My friend likes chess so he joined a chess club.

D) Do not ever define yourself by what women think of you. You are your own man with inherent worth and something to offer. If you like something and it makes you happy, then chase it with everything you've got in you. Be the best at it that you can be.

E) This is a long and tough journey ahead. The road to enlightment is dotted with detours and pit stops to distract you. But the good news is... I see MGTOW as a family to me. We are here to support you, even through each other's bonehead mistakes. I know it sucks man. We've all been there and we are here for you now. If you need someone to talk to then just DM me.

Stay strong, bro. Read and understand everything I just wrote. You can do this! I know you can because I did.

Caracaos · 2019-07-15T03:29:14+00:00

Hey brother. I know you feel hurt and upset and confused. It's okay to feel that way and to vocalize it. Just let yourself know that this will go away with time. Like you said, what a cunt. As time goes on, that's all you're going to remember.

Chemistry with someone and infatuation with them (ie love at first sight) is neurologically similar to using cocaine. When you interact with someone you're interested in, and they seem interested in you, the dopamine and norepinephrine are waterfalling in your head. You can't stop thinking about them, you're probably having issues sleeping and eating, you feel a bounce in your step and every aspect of your day just feels charged with joy. Yep, cocaine.

If male attraction to women was just about getting horny and wanting to fuck, life would be so much easier. But your brain is a fucker. Its wired to flood you with happy chemicals when the social context suggests imminent mating.

So when this contact that you crave gets taken away from you, you go into withdrawal - it could be a mild funk all the way up to suicidal depression, for some of the brothers still deep in the plantation.

Withdrawal is a bitch. You can't outthink it. You have to address it environmentally - exercise, sleep well, eat healthfully, maintain light-hearted social contact. You have to focus on why your brain is behaving the way it is - and disregard that bitch completely. Your funk right now has nothing to do with her. Jack shit. It's entirely about you and the bullshit your brain cooked up in order to get you laid. So tolerate it and trust that with time you'll feel better.

Texian_Fusilier · 2019-07-15T03:47:44+00:00

So what else do you do? You got hobbies? Get some good hobbies, and friends and have adventures.

PhantomCowboy · 2019-07-15T03:50:25+00:00

just dark triad bro

Title	I am feeling so depressed, confused and hopeless and lost :)
Author	Ipissedonmyballz
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	July 15, 2019 1:56 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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