How to cope with arrange marriage process if i am not a virgin?

40 points143 commentssubmitted by hakunamatata1325 to r/india

Hi

I am a 26 year old girl who has a marriageable age now. I have been single for the last 1 and a half years, so I might probably go the arrange marriage way. I've had my share of relationships in the past which my family members don't know of and all of them have ended in hookup. Some of them have also been with foreigners as I went abroad for my masters.

For those who've been a part of the marriage process, does this come up? For all the non virgin people, how did you cope with this? I really fear regarding my parents reaction on knowing about my sexual history but I don't want to lie about it because my significant other would know about it sooner or later.

Would appreciate any suggestion.