TLDR: Being a blue pilled cuck cost me $25K

Hey gents,

Just wanted to share my terrible financial choices so that others can learn from it and not make the same mistakes I did.

Circa 2016, I was a horny male in my mid-20s and thought that the pinnacle of success was getting a girlfriend and eventually a wife. I realized that my pickup skills sucked and I was having no luck with dating apps so I thought I would try professional matchmakers and PUA training.

  1. So I went with the local professional matchmakers: It's Just Lunch. They set you up with dates until you find a match and you pay a one time fee of $5K. In reality, I ended up getting only 5 dates and each of them was an overweight white-girl in her 30s. Suffice to say, I stopped doing this service after the 5th date.

  2. After that, I thought maybe I can learn how to charm my way to pussy. So I signed up for the Art of Charm bootcamp. Beware guys, this will cost you $10K for in-person PUA coaching. In reality, you'll have one coach for 9-10 guys and won't be receiving any specialized attention but just a lot of generic PUA BS. The whole bootcamp is 5 days, so basically you're paying $2K per day for a bootcamp. All I really learned from this was how to follow a shitty script to pickup ladies. Stay away from these dudes, it's an overpriced scam.

While I was going through these different programs, my brother decides to marry his girlfriend. She wants a big wedding and so my brother needs to figure out how to scrape together $40K. Me, being a dumbass blue-pilled-beta-boy, decide to give him $10K for his wedding. The wedding lasted two days and was a bunch of relatives I didn't know or couldn't care less about.

Let's break down the math of each of these financial decisions:

  1. It's Just Lunch ($5,000): Went on 5 dates, so breakdown per date was $1,000 to sit across from overweight, boring women.

  2. Art of Charm Bootcamp ($10,000): Got taught PUA script for 5 days, breakdown per day was $2000 to learn shit I could've Googled.

  3. Brother's Wedding ($10,000): Wedding for two days, breakdown $5000/day to hang around shitty relatives.

Eventually, I ran into TRP to improve my PUA skills. It's funny that TRP is called The Red Pill because it's actually "teaching blue-pilled cucks to act red-pilled". After some success, started to realize I was wasting too much time on pussy and it actually wasn't worth the time or money. That's when I ran into MGTOW.

MGTOW is the true red pill and after swallowing it, I started to realize all the BS around me. The biggest lessons MGTOW has taught me is to value your time, your resources, your mind. If you don't, then you will have your resources raped by those that have ulterior motives.

Learn from my stupidity, guard yourself and your money.