What's so concerning to me about our society is that it is increasingly disjointed from reality. It seems to me that women generally care more about feelings than truth (i.e. reality), and men care more about the physical world.

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Men of course are attracted to the physical appearance of women. Women, however, are attracted to the fantasy of a man. Women do not care if a man actually owns the luxury car he drives. Women will live in the fantasy that the man has the money and status his car signals is his, regardless whether it really exists.

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I have discovered over the years that modern people are allergic to truth. Discussing truth hits them like a punch in the face. Many people would prefer to live in a fantasy than actually face the reality of our world.

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Women see a man on t.v. and are attracted to him. They want to seduce him and have momentary power over him not necessarily because they want his children (although some would love to have that security) but because they want the fantasy and the validation of their worth that he gives them. Birth control (and abortion) gives women the ability to act out these fantasies until their body fails them. Then they have to deal with reality.

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Plastic surgery gives women more outlets for their fantasy. Narcissistic women can attract all the male attention they need with enormous fake breasts and nose jobs and tummy tucks. It is all done to continue the fantasy.

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Of course some women will try and continue the fantasy long term by pursuing a relationship or children. Many can move on from any relationship the next day as if nothing happened as they are living a fantasy and when they tire of it they will move onto another one, so long as it validates their existence and sexuality.

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Men, on the other hand, need to climax to feel validated. And many men feel the need to have a family to have validation. (I know I did for years although now I am content as I am.)

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Society's rules and mores are necessary to influence individual behavior. Enforced monogamy introduces stability into society as it gives men assurances that their labor results in the survival of their genes. Of course, all of this is ultimately meaningless as death resets everything. There is no benefit to having had children once you become deceased. But the instinct to reproduce in men and women is a strong one.

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Modern feminism has destroyed the balance of society. Now it is going to reset. Men who desired to be providers and start families have been thwarted by a lack of worthy women. So now because of unreliable women we have more and more children being born outside marriage and thus family. We have seen an all out war on families with the government stepping in as caretaker for the irresponsible.

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Of course men are also to blame for this. The reason to not sleep with another man's wife is empathy. As society continues to tolerate and reward narcissism (whose primary trait is a lack of empathy) we have more and more people suffering from narcissism and dumping the pain of their denial of reality onto others that have the misfortune of coming across them.

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What complicates this is that technology continues to render labor more and more useless. If labor is not required for survival of the human race, what value do men have? What value are families? In this modern world hierarchies are being created not based on traditional criteria but rather on superficial and fantastic ones. Looks for example are promoted more than ever in our society, as shown by the attention seeking by vapid women on social media. This has created an explosion of female narcissism where they are so self-seeking they do not even have empathy for their own children. They treat their children as extensions of themselves.

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Look at the existence of Barack Obama and Justin Trudeau. Two utterly spineless narcissists (or perhaps sociopaths) whose looks and charm delight the masses who can't help but fall headlong into that fantasy Obama and Trudeau have tirelessly crafted.

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In this world of superficiality men are largely unable to distinguish themselves as providers. Or course, wealthy men can differentiate themselves as able to provide women with a fantasy life of living on beaches and traveling as opposed to a simple life of a home with food but with kids to take care of. And men will always be desired by women for what material goods they do have, even to the extent of buying them drinks or gifts or jewelry. In this narcissistic world children actually require work and empathy to raise properly and so the modern narcissistic woman often has little interest in motherhood. She is more concerned with going to the beach so she can take selfies and post them on Instagram.

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Men therefore are encouraged to participate in this fantasy. Narcissists thrive in this environment because they are adept at manipulating feelings and emotions. They provide the feeling of status by talking and driving nice cars and wearing expensive clothes. Women can't help themselves but to dive into these fantasies. The narcissists themselves, however, can't escape the emptiness of this life as they know full well as soon as their money, looks, fame, or status dry up they will be discarded by the women who are falling all over themselves for them.

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The problem with fantasies is that reality always rears its ugly head. We are flesh and blood and in a state of constant decay. Every day is one day closer to our end. When reality hits these people who have been living a fantasy the results can be devastating. They look straight in the face of the emptiness they've been striving their whole lives to avoid. They are capable of unspeakable wrongs because they simply don't possess empathy to behave otherwise.

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People indulge in other fantasies aside from those of sex and relationships. The fantasy that all cultures are equal and all humans are equal. Of course this could not be further from the truth. There are an unlimited number of ways in which humans are unequal. Looks, intelligence, self-control, the list is endless. And these fantasies of equality lead to cognitive dissonance that creates the potential for chaos once these world views face reality. This is how the mass murder of war happens--when two ideologies that are incompatible meet at a cross-roads.

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The goal should always be truth. Fantasy should not be the goal of society. It can be an escape but it should not get to the point where it blurs with reality. Fantasy eventually leads to misery. The fantasy and absurdity of feminism needs to be checked by reality. So as for globalism, so as for nihilism. We need to combat these forces with truth and honesty in the appropriate places or else this culture of freedom and opportunity will be corrupted and replaced with the tyranny of communism or fascism.

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Thanks for reading and I look forward to reading any comments as they always provide additional information. While I do take care to say things I believe to be true I do make mistakes and as such my ideas and beliefs are constantly evolving, although I do have a core of beliefs that I have always believed to be true.