Fatherlessness. (or even fathers that were there but never really cared)

It extends to other societal problems as well but for this condensed observation the girls I've met have a serious issue that stems from a lack of respect for the other person because they've never had a good father figure in their life. I guess it has enabled the opportunity for me to have been with them, albeit that's just a histrionic commonality. But I'd so much rather exchange those times for an actual trusting bond with someone. At the same time people change, and we've seen the divorce rates fellow mgtow. It's no coincidence that one variable develops into an amalgamation of cluster B chaos that ruins that person. It's like a disease that spreads to worsen the man in the relationship and often leads to the woman cheating/cuckolding etc. (narcissism) - Look up the Louis Theroux doc on polyamory. You can see the pain that Jerry has when Heidi speaks to him while in bed with Joe.

There's this lack of self-belief/validation that gets twisted by other people who don't actually care about them and their anxiety makes this 100× worse. And I'm just saddened that there's no changing that especially with how committed they are to accomplishing the ideas but not understanding the reality of their consequences.

Guys I've tried to heal them, I really did but it always ended at an impasse where I've invested too much into them and they see that as a weakness. No more. Time to love myself.