I have a friend who has very high SMV. He lifts, spins plates, kills it at online dating and picking up in bars, has solid game, lots of money, plays in a rock band, he's on track to become the CEO of the company he works for, he's tall, handsome, ethnic, extremely intelligent, has an extremely strong IDGAF attitude and is very politically incorrect, doesn't care who he offends with his opinions, etc. He's even said to me that he thinks LTRs aren't worth it and that's why he doesn't feel guily cheating when he is in relationships. I have never had any issue discussing TRP concepts like AWALT around him because he always agrees with them 100%.
Well I recently found out that he betad out and decided to LTR a stripper because she's hot, but that he's trying to convince her to quit stripping. Naturally I told him exactly what I thought. I was brutal and didn't hold back, because that's how he always is:
- That's her job and she makes a lot of money doing it. She's not going to quit just to not hurt your feelings, because she is a woman and doesn't give a fuck about your feelings. If she quits simply because of your precious fee-fees, she will resent you for it forever.
- Obviously she's damaged goods because she's a stripper, which is barely one step above being a whore. Not in the slightest worthy of committment from a high SMV man such as yourself.
- She said she's never engaged in any sexual activity with any of her clients for money, I asked him if he's sure about that. He says yes, but obviously he has no idea because he's only known this girl for a month. I told him he's naive for believing that.
- She also said that she "feels bad" for him that he's in a relationship with her, and he took it as a good sign that she views him as above her. I told him that's wrong, she's really saying that she pities you that you think so lowly of yourself that you would commit to such a low quality woman as her. 6. I told him because he thinks so lowly of himself, and because she clearly knows that he's insecure for trying to get her to quit stripping, she is eventually going to lose attraction and dead-bedroom you.
- I posed a hypothetical sceneario to him. I asked him if he was plating a girl that gave an entire football team lap dances at a party, if he'd still want to make her his girlfriend. He said no, and so then I asked if it would make him feel better if they were paying her to do it. He said hell no, and so I said THEN WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU DATING A STRIPPER? It's the same thing, just because it's her job doesn't somehow make her more LTR-worthy.
- You don't feel bad about cheating on your girlfriends, and she's already giving lap dances (and who knows what else) to other guys every single day. Why should you feel guilty about cheating on a stripper?
- He says dumping her is not an option. I told him to have fun with her while it lasts then. Have threesomes or whatever with her other stripper friends, and since he's OK with cheating on his girlfriends that he should cheat on her and branch swing to another woman if he finds one that's LTR worthy. Because she will lose attraction to you sooner or later and stop fucking you and will definitely be fucking someone else, if she isn't already. She's not yours, it's just your turn. Accept it.
We go to the gym and he's obviously depressed and says he's glad I told him how I felt, even if it was brutal. Afterwards we went out to a bar. I know that banging another chick will make him feel better, so I act as his wingman for the night and encourage him to go talk to an HB8 sitting in a group of four girls. He starts gaming her, and I do my part and distract the other girls in order to minimize the hen-peck effect. He and the girl start getting their hands on each other and he gets her number and they leave. We go downstairs and sit at a booth, and sometime later her and her friends walk past us as they're leaving. He smacks her ass and she turns around and talks to us for a minute before leaving. I left shortly after.
Well apparently he continued to get drunk and met up with his stripper girlfriend after she was done at the bachelor party she was doing that night. He told her everything I said and asked if it was true. That was something I told him in confidence, man-to-man, and he completely betrayed my trust. He apologized profusely but told me that the next time I see them, she is going to be a huge bitch to me. I told him I'm not dealing with that.
He is so thirsty that he's willing to allow some bitch he's known for 2 months disrespect one of his best friends that he's known for over a decade. He's willing to throw me under the bus like that, just for a chance to temporarily secure partial access to low quality pussy. Don't assume that just because one of your friends has very high SMV and acts incredibly red pill most of the time means that he still doesn't have some blue pill conditioning in him. This example goes to show you that Blue Pill is a very powerful force that plagues the mind of the modern man. Once you've completely digest the Red Pill, you WILL lose friends as they begin to show their true colors.
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