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[–]ChampOfTheFuture6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
If she asks, just tell her that you're too young for anything serious and that you don't plan to settle down before your thirties.
If she doesn't, just act like this is implied.
And be careful of getting her pregnant.
[–]trpthrowaway20037 points8 points9 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm worried that if I tell her that she will get rid of me
It sounds like you should start by getting rid of this mentality.
You are giving her the upper hand in the power dynamic of your relationship.
[–]Dnice4131 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My advise is to just play it cool and laid back. You're putting too much thought into it. You're putting the pussy on a pedestal. She can hit you with a shit test RIGHT NOW and you'd fail. "Go out with me or you're not getting no more sex"......"ok" You're eventually going to end up going out with her because you're making it clear that she is your best (damn near only) option. There's 125m women in the US. You'll be fine bro.
Don't put the pussy on a pedestal
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree that I am overthinking this a bit. lol. will definitely chill out some
[–]bossleap1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bang and hang sound detrimental to your ego friend. Cut it out.
[–]Z33ger1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Why are you driving 3hrs twice a month (so 6hrs round trip twice equals 12hrs monthly total) to fuck a wall-approaching CC veteran?
Stop doing that. She is not the only vagina in the world for you. No plate is worth that much time in driving. At best you should have her on-call for an easy lay, meal, and place to sleep when you're in the area doing things work-related on your own time.
Otherwise don't waste your time to see her, especially if you're 24 and she is almost 30. (Read: she is approaching the wall and will catch baby-fever soon...)
An unworthy risk for a guy who has at least another decade of slaying to do before he reaches his 'peak SMV' according to conventional wisdom around here.
Think of it as an exercise in abundance.
By denying yourself the "easy" but "inefficient" option you force yourself to explore more difficult paths with better reward. Businesses do the same thing. Sometimes it is better to buy raw materials and incorporate additional manufacturing phases to your product. Other times it might be better to buy pre-assembled pieces and sell them at a smaller profit margin in exchange for saved time. But it never works to choose the method that costs the most time and money, there must be a better way if that is the case.
Start rotating girls in your own area and have them come to you. Have her drive to you, put her on the page cough cough if she really fucks like a star. Or Use Tinder if you must. And build them into your schedule based on what you're doing instead of going out of your way to see them.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I guess I forgot to mention that everytime I do go see her I will hang out with my buddies during the day and only see her at night. She wanted to go to the music festival with me so I agreed but I have set it up in a way where I will hangout with my friends and she will just tag along. Isn't it acceptable to hang out with her while I'm still doing what I want to do?
[–]Z33ger1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If she already has her ticket and is excited to go then sure, let her come, but it's not a date if she's only a plate. Don't let her get in the way of you gaming other chicks at the festival. Don't let her distract you from having a good time with your friends. Talk to other girls your own age during your time there and lay pipe on some strange. Piss her off and see what follows, I dare you. Get girls for your buddies too.
As a side note, how often do you friends make the trip to visit you? You should really have available networks in both cities, from a social-logistic standpoint only abundance makes sense.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Yea I agree abundance is key. This is a different city though that the festival is in, so I'm hanging out with different friends than the city where she lives. We are both driving there to meet up then I have planned to hang out with buddies so it's not just us two. They usually come up as often as I go. Maybe once or twice a month. I like your advice though! I think I'm gonna hit on chicks like you said though. Piss her off and see how she responds. I like your thinking bro! Any more tips would be appreciated! Definitely not a date, more of a we both like music so we are both going. I paid the tickets, she paid the hotel room (mistake?) it just seems that we both like each other, and it has all the makings of relationship, however Im just looking to have fun.
[–]Z33ger1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah whatever happens happens. I wouldn't have split the hotel room/tickets with her because that represents a commitment, but don't be afraid to sleep somewhere else with someone else if the opportunity presents itself.
It sounds like you're the one pulling everyone together for this trip so take advantage of your role and show everyone your best. Take charge and show some leadership with your group.
Have fun and be safe.
[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can tell she really wants me since I'm not some weak beta fucker lol.
Yes, while you're there. Not when you're not there.
don't want her to think that I'm looking for anything serious but I'm worried that if I tell her that she will get rid of me and I will no longer have her at my disposal
This is what happens when you have scarcity and defacto monogamy. Otherwise known as first quasi-plate loss fear.
I would dump her in a heartbeat if I had more options but my lack of social life hurts my chances.
THIS IS THE PROBLEM AND THE SOLUTION. Focus on this bit, not the girl.
[–]NeoreactionSafe1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cock Carousel™ riding woman of 29 years old... that's just a very sad scenario that is forming.
My guess is you are her last hope of securing anything remotely healthy in her future before the Wall hits her really hard and things go to shit for her.
Unless you plan to have a child with this woman (a really bad idea) you would be much better off ending it sooner than later.
The longer this goes on the worse it is for her.
You have at least a decade before you hit your peak (more like 15 years) so you have tons of time, but her situation is very, very grim.
I'd say get out.
Watch out for pregnancy now... this is the #1 most likely trap she will set.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
You are a disgusting person, OP
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Yes I know. Haha that's what makes life fun. Lol
[–]zartz0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Hahahahha, no it doesn't. It makes you miserable and bitter.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Definitely not miserable and bitter lol
[–]zartz2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You'll get there then. You are still young and life usually does that to arrogant people. You'll see.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why you gotta be a buzzkill? I ask for some advice and you just come up here and insult me. I may end up bitter and miserable but it sounds like you are already there lol.
[–]gg_s2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He didn't insult you, he criticized you. Don't you know the difference?
[–]zartz0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you are not miserable and an asshole on the inside, why do you feel like acting it out?
[–]gg_s0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh really?
drives 3 hours to fuck her
I've got bad news for you dude.
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