This is the story of the next phase of my life... Here is the link if you would like to read from the beginning: https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/a2qee3/life_with_the_red_pill_and_my_journey_to_mgtow/

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So with a chaotic upbringing like that you can probably imagine the issues I had with women, relationships, and my general emotional stability. Once my parents divorced they became only concerned with themselves and what they were doing. Which is fine... I was 16 at this point, had my driver's license, and had plenty of girlfriends. I really gave up on school and sports. I focused on getting girls and partying. I became quite the drunk at my young age. However, ultimately I knew that I was a smart guy and a good person. So I decided to get out of all of it and join the military.

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I had somewhat of a high school sweetheart... A girl that I loosely dated throughout high school. I don't know if it is the abuse from my mother or what psychological impact my childhood left me with that I felt I NEEDED to have a girlfriend. Couldn't be alone. Anyways... I made the typical military mistake and married my high school sweetheart and had her move with me to my first duty station. She moved there and sat on her butt for a few months while I worked. Once I got comfortable I kicked her out and got the marriage annulled. Definitely my mistake.

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I stayed "single" for a year or so when I just bounced from woman to woman. I excelled at the military and my career having scored the highest ever on my career development courses. I was step promoted and received Sr. Airmen Below the Zone. I then received orders to a tropical island... The exact place I wanted to go. Before I went though... We had to celebrate. STRIP CLUB!!!

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That last trip to the strip club before I left in two weeks was probably the most impactful night of my life and a night that I will have to live with every day for the rest of my life. No... I didn't knock up a stripper. Close though. A stripper invited me to a party at her apartment because I had to meet her roommate who "used to be a stripper, but is getting her stuff together and is beautiful." Her roommate came into the strip club to get her Blockbuster card so she could rent a movie. Yes... That's how long ago this was. I got to meet her and no shit... She was beautiful. That was it. I was done for. I fell in love with her immediately. With orders to go to a tropical island in 2 weeks. She was about to be homeless. Her electric was shut off, she quit her new job as a waitress, her roommate wasn't pulling in the tips as a stripper. Her only way to keep her apartment was to go back to dancing. I wasn't going to have it. So... I shipped her to stay with my Mom in another state until I could afford for her to fly to my tropical island and marry me.

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I went to my tropical island... Where I was met by a plethora of friends and beautiful women. I partied hard and had fun. After a few months I had the money and I flew her out and we got married. I still wanted to party hard... I was 20 years old! Majority of my friends were females, but I seriously considered them to be just friends. One night, we chartered a fishing boat. Got drunk and the fishing guides invited us back to their house to keep drinking. They had a little moped bike and I had a blast giving my friends rides on this moped. When I got back from cruising around I saw my new wife laying on the lap of one of the fishing guides making out with him. I tried to play it cool. I asked my friends what was going on and they told me that my new wife and the fishing guide just came back from the shed where they were hooking up. I played it cool. Acted like it didn't bother me. Reality is... It devastated me.

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It was very downhill from here. I watched my Dad get cheated on by my Mom. I wasn't going to be my Dad. In fact, I am coming back with a vengeance. I will get her back for that. You think you can cheat on me? Watch what I can do... I went buck wild. I slept with everyone. I openly date the most beautiful women and rubbed it in her face. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned." Cheating is illegal in the military. Well, for the one in the military, not for the spouse of the guy in the military. But just adultery wasn't enough for her. She had to accuse assault and battery. Not true... No proof of any of it. But it didn't matter. I don't know if it's like this on the civilian side, but she could have said I fucked a monkey and I would have been found guilty for bestiality. I didn't stand a chance.

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Well... I ended up getting sentenced to two years in the brig. But, she actually felt bad and after a few months wrote to the judge that she had in fact lied and I received clemency... Are you fucking kidding me?! Although I received clemency the military no longer wanted me and I was discharged into the civilian life. I did learn something out of the whole thing... My vengeance of sleeping with all of these women to get back at her was wrong. Especially since it turns out that she never did sleep with the fishing guide. That was a lie told by my "friends" to get me to leave her. Regardless, at 21 years old I was kicked out of the military and lost.

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Well that's part 2... The build up continues for me to go MGTOW. There's a lot more to that story that I typed just because it would be a damn book if I wrote everything. But even my childhood and my brief time married to a stripper in the military didn't get me to MGTOW yet. I needed more punishment. I had to go through some worse shit before I would finally decide to go my own way....

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