I have been wanting to post on TRP ever since I subscribed to it a few months ago. This post is concerning the benefits of forming strong male friendship bonds but before I begin, let me tell y'all a bit about myself.
I, like some of you, was a blue-pilled, white knight, beta male cuck. Fortunately, through years and a lot of work I have slowly demolished those beta male characteristics. Although, it wasn't because of this subreddit that I was able to do so (God, I wish I knew this had existed back when I was a little bitch). I attribute the tremendous strides I have made in my personality to the alpha male friends I made after a horrendous break up with the girl who I thought I was going to marry a few years back. You see, back in my beta male days I was the supreme beta, I say this because at times I look back at some of my actions while I was dating or seeking female approval and it horrifies/appalls me to no end. I would triple and quadruple text the lasses that I was trying to court. I was needy and always seeking the approval of my female companions. I would apologize for my actions when my female friends were upset even when I would do nothing wrong. I would tell them they are beautiful and put them on pedestals, regarding them as angels. The pure thought of my actions make me sick to my stomach. I regard all of my shitty tendencies to not having strong alpha male friendships. For you see, I had many female friends but little male friends and basically no alpha male friends (thought they were dicks even though they were getting pussy on the reg) and here is where my problem lied.
Right after my first LTR, don't want to go into details about that just know that I basically got dumped for being a beta, I took a 2 year hiatus on my dating my life. Given, the hiatus was primarily because I was too desperate for another LTR and chicks can smell that from miles away. However, right about 6-8 months I began to just not give a shit about girls/relationship (almost omega-like). It was during this period where I decided to do two things. The first is work out more; I have been lifting since high school and had a pretty good body (had a six-pack) right up to the point I was dumped. But, once I garnered the IDGAF mentality, that's when I began lifting for myself and just focusing on being the strongest motherfucker in the gym everyday. The second and most important thing I did during that period is I actively went out of my way to surround myself with alpha males. I realized that females are just pussy with a lot of drama and because of my result in spending so much time with them, I became soft. When I finally accepted that I was a beta male bitch, I made the conscious decision to go out and seek alpha male friends. Reason being, alpha males aren't mentally weak. I didn't want to be mentally weak, hence why I sought those male friendships. I lifted with them, partied with them, ate with them, and through this experience I snapped out of what I'm pretty sure was depression. Now you may make the argument that I was still beta trying to disguise myself as an alpha. This is far from true. You see, back in the hunter/gatherer days, how did a child learn to become a hunter? He was inducted into a hunting pack and would manipulate everything the other more experienced males did in the pack. He learned to walk like them, talk like them, track like them, think like them, and in doing so he learned how to hunt like his hunting pack; he became a hunter. By consciously seeking an alpha male friend group I garnered something better than alpha male mentality. I made long lasting male friendships that will last a lifetime.
Gentleman, my point is thus and really quite simple to understand, pussy is abundant anywhere and any time. This means pussy has no value but strong alpha male bonds are rare. Hence, strong alpha male bonds are priceless. I owe my life to my boys. Because of them I am mentally stronger, have ambitions, and I no longer care about female approval.
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