I am a 15 yr 6"3 ft swedish male turning 16 soon who has had a somewhat good luck when it comes to girls, although mostly because they thought i was "cute" or "hot" and not because of my personality, which i would consider as kind, caring and maybe not very macho, still not feminine though. Im just your average nice dude, but i feel like girls dont care about that. Im getting a feeling that most people ive "dated" only went for my looks, and then directly suggest to just be friends when they notice my somewhat softer personality. Ive hung out with several girls who all ended up thinking i was just friend material, and then continued talking about how they wanted a boyfriend on their social media like true incels would do. Am i being wrong now, or do these girls want assholes who treat them like shit? Im not an incel anyhow, and i respect women, but i just dont understand their nature. Should i change my personality to chad-macho style, or should i just say fk it and GMOW?