...the most important thing was this.

"She was a normal girl who wanted normal things. She wanted to get married, get a mortage and have a couple of babies. And she would have made a solid wife.

But I would have had to sacrifice my dreams for her dreams.

I decided to go to Hong Kong and spend a month on an island in Thailand getting my scuba license.

My dreams are more important than my need for companionship".

He made a choice and went his own way.

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