MGTOW is well intentioned and all, but how do you deal with the crushing sex withdrawal?

SWFLSlimJim · 2018-11-16T23:06:32+00:00

Sounds like your thinking MGTOW is all about monk mode. If you like sex, have sex. Go your way. ✌🏻

Infinitewisdom1984 · 2018-11-16T23:06:47+00:00

Fuck away. This is going YOUR way, not anyone else's way. If you can gather more pros than cons banging a woman once a week and it is worth it to you, then do it. No one says you have to give up sex and become a monk - just be smart about it (and that's just a suggestion not a commandment).

GlobalAsshat · 2018-11-16T23:12:57+00:00

You can fuck if you want too. Get a visectomy. MGTOW does not have to mean break all contact from women. Keep in mind there is an incel segment in this movement that are jealous of any men who've gotten a lot of sex, something I've noticed in my time here. Don't let other men tell you what you can and can't do to be part of this movement. You do what the fuck you want, with a red pill mindset. MGTOW is about understanding a female's responses by studying evolutionary psychology, and then deciding if you want to pursue them or not. It's up to you. Just beware of your own programmed urges, potential oneitis you might get, and the consequences of a potential relationship should one occur. Don't say we didn't warn you.

Dahcpmis · 2018-11-16T23:07:40+00:00

Having a bad experience with sex usually does it. Like a rape accusation.

jb25712 · 2018-11-16T23:20:52+00:00

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Aneurism1 · 2018-11-16T23:46:11+00:00

The problem isn't the withdrawal. It is the initial deposit.

originaldutchcow · 2018-11-16T23:06:17+00:00

If you want to numb yourself, get yourself addicted to porn. It is the opposite of nofap. After a while you have conditioned your brain to only become horny seeing certain images. You can no longer get aroused (get a erection) from regular sex and 99% of women will have the attractiveness of a cow to you.

Or, get a sexdoll

Texian_Fusilier · 2018-11-17T00:06:47+00:00

Go without something long enough and you quit wanting it. With this you learn to tell the difference between your own thoughts, and biological urges. Which become more of an annoyance than an influence.

2018-11-17T00:13:47+00:00

Going without sex was pretty crushing for me too after splitting from my ex. I had some really paranoid thoughts, I genuinely thought I might have a nervous breakdown if I didn't get laid. The fear wore off, porn was more than enough. When I did have sex again it didn't feel special at all. It's mostly in your head, don't worry.

Gr8bellsoffire · 2018-11-17T03:02:22+00:00

I am a mgtow that has sex. I pump and dump. Had vasectomy, that is like a requirement.

Honestly it's mostly meaningless. Does it feel good sure. But I spend no money on dates, spend literally no effort, and soon as I'm done I want them gone.

They don't help it either. Because every single one of them are the same bullshit stories same nonsense over and over. For what. For starfish sex?

Married women. Single. With bfs. Engaged. Had em all. They all the same man. Eventually you get to the point that it disgusts you. Same lines. Same convos. Same cliches. Always ends the same way.

I'm not quite there yet, but I'm damn close. In some ways we have to be so disgusted with ourselves to just stop trying. And it's only after you've had the same bullshit conversation with the same thot leading to the same sex youve had over and over again before it sinks in

2018-11-16T23:08:50+00:00

Having sex? Just don't commit, take extra care (I had vasectomie done), don't date the same woman for a extended period of time, don't let your dates sleep over, hire prostitutes, whatever works best for you.

But I have to add that sex is overrated, you will learn that as you get older.

rooster-one4 · 2018-11-17T00:21:04+00:00

A week :). I was 18 in the army and spent months at a time without the opportunity... But beating off works.

German992 · 2018-11-16T23:20:56+00:00

MGTOW is either 100% or 0%. You’re either going your own way, or you’re back on the plantation, simping away.

Don’t limit or confine your experience to the decisions of others.

rebelde_sin_causa · 2018-11-17T00:55:42+00:00

I'm a believer in trp when you're younger, and gyow as you get older. Because the sex drive is so much stronger when you're younger. Didn't start to taper off for me until I was into my 40s. At which point gmow became easy. Natural even. But I don't think I could have done it in my 20s.

This, in a nutshell, is how women have had power over men. Take the overpowering sex urge out of the younger male, and he has no reason left to ever put up with her shit.

LiveTheTruth321 · 2018-11-17T02:17:58+00:00

Keep going through it.

lonewolfsigma8917 · 2018-11-17T07:28:56+00:00

Just do not co-habitate with women and have a booty call, have escorts invited to your place, have threesome,foursomes and orgies to have fun. When you have a threesome, you always feel that one woman is not enough for you. You would always need two carpet munching whores & guess what i like it.

Atton_Risk · 2018-11-17T07:30:37+00:00

Dolls, and in the words of tfm spinning robot pussy just to name a few

lonewolfsigma8917 · 2018-11-17T07:32:48+00:00

Always have sex with prostitutes so thst you are not accused of RAPE. Even some housewives in your neighbourhood might be working as an escort, have a bouncer outside your room and a panic button so that you don't get mugged, learn some MMA so that you you could defend yourself,even if youbare in your 50s.

FennelMGTOW · 2018-11-17T14:28:22+00:00

Get a vasectomy, stick with FwB/Hookers.

2018-11-17T16:22:11+00:00

Rub it off. Some advocate dolls.

Title	MGTOW is well intentioned and all, but how do you deal with the crushing sex withdrawal?
Author	ksoviero
Upvotes	15
Comments	28
Date	November 16, 2018 11:00 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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