I really have no idea if this is possible, all I'm supplying here is a subjective testimony of what could be an average 40-year-old male.

All of this is based on the premise that if I could get to live my life over without any sexual desire or needs, I am entirely convinced I would have saved myself a lot of hassle.

Let's get right back to basics, the game was rigged from the very start. Why is it that the norm has always been to "chase" girls? Why is it that people use words like "Catch" or "Score".

The notion of comparing all of this to nature is ludicrous too. You know the BS where the male is the hunter.

At the very least, most cultures have it that the man needs to woo the woman. The male is supposed to do all the work, while these "queens" get to pick and choose which male they want.

In African cultures, it gets even more extreme when a man has to actually pay the parents of the bride, or buy them sheep, cows or goats as a symbolic gesture.

It would seem then gentlemen that a female is not only more valuable than a male, requires a certain amount of servitude to get interested and in return is supposed to contribute what exactly?

Let's review that for a minute, because at some stage in history women actually kept up their end of the bargain (more or less). They weren't going out to work and wanting to prove themselves at the peril of their family and home life. They weren't sitting in front of the TV when you get home after a busy day neither were they glued to their phones. They weren't thinking about fucking Todd from the office - because there was no office, not for them at least.

There used to be consequences too and at least the guise of moral values. These days if a woman cheats, everyone keeps hush about it, and they assume "He must be a real bastard" or he deserved it in some way or the most common "Shame the poor girl isn't happy". Slut shaming you say? Yeah, that's no longer a thing.

But I digress. I think it's safe to say at my age (40), I was born into the ashes of the last days of normality before feminism destroyed all that. However, for at least the last 10 years, life has simply not been the same.

Don't think I'm here to tell you about the good old days. No my relationship history has always been somewhere up shit creek, and not for lack of trying either. I'm perhaps average looking, and I have a decent job, I do not smoke or drink and frankly just normal.

I like the same shit now, like everyone else, and way back, I just like everyone else was into what was good at the time. I'm not a recluse, a weirdo, a nerd or somehow socially inadequate. I'm not an incel nor a forever alone. I started dating just like everyone else, and have had many women and was married too, and I'm still in a long term relationship.

What's the problem you might be wondering, well I'll tell you. From a live lived, I'm telling you, do not make finding "The one" your primary objective. Ideally if you can drop all notions of a romantic partnership, a natural one, like you believe should be possible and attainable.

I spent a lot of time chasing that, and my conclusion is women are 99.9% full of shit, and if I could have that time back, I would not have wasted it on such undeserving subjects.

There's one problem, this built-in desire for sex. At my age, and I mean just this year, I can feel this desire lessening. But I've been horny my whole life. Some people are ok having sex once a month, me I like it every day. Needless to say the desire for sex has been a massive proponent in how I lived my life to this point, the decisions I made and who I decided to spend my life with.

It influences the other things too, so I'm saying curb this shit.

All I'm saying is, it's a crying shame AI at Zoe level isn't available, and won't be in our lifetimes. Most real women are a bit insane.

And I mean that as sincerely as possible. Have a god damn look around, I swear most women are fucking lunatics.

Here's an example. You know that song "Turn off the light" Nelly Fertardo? The fucking song comes on the radio, and I'm thinking wow haven't heard this shit since MTV days. What was this song even about? Back then I didn't listen to the lyrics but I swear "I live my life by the moon (by the moon) If it's high play it low, if it's harvest go slow and if it's full, then go". And it got me thinking, this is exactly the kind of bullshit with women. A song like "Turn off the light" sounds like something sexy, meantime what you're getting is all this weird shit.

Let me ask you, how many times has a guy asked you what your star sign is? It's females who propagate this shit. Star signs are for morons and cunts, females fully believe in this shit, and will seek out a partner based on this, or reject a perfectly good guy because he's the wrong fucking star sign!

And here you are looking for a normal fucking mate and partner. A friend and someone who's at least fuckable, and yeah someone to love, and what do you get? A sea full of lunatics.

Freddy Mercury -> "Can anyone find me someone to love?". He realized this shit. All the money and fame in the world couldn't find him female love, and he was bi. I guess later he just gave up on women entirely.

Women are like a bad addiction to gambling. Most men are like those suckers in Vegas, they can never win but will cash their paycheque, and when that's gone, offer up the car or house as surity, and loose ultimately everything. Women simply don't pay out.

They might in the short term, and yeah some people do win, but the vast majority of men simply do not win.