I'm just an average soon to be 21 year old American dude in college who works a good job while in school. I noticed ever since I became a MGTOW just why I was only able to match with women of lower social status in the earlier Tinder days until I started making it more obvious what I did for a job and trading stocks for extra cash. I started downplaying the music I enjoyed and the more irrelevant features of my personality in exchange for things that would offset the skinny white guy that I am, who can only be in such high demand out there. Suddenly, the quality of women matching with me went up, they seemed to be more fascinated in the fact that I had hobbies and pursuits that would logically lead to resources and plentiful wealth if everything worked out.

This wasn't a huge shock to me, obviously, just very fascinating to feel and observe first hand. I honestly wouldn't go that far as to say they are all gold digging, but it definitely, at this young of age especially, makes you stand the hell out in comparison. However, the flip side to this is where the Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks Theory comes into play. I notice that these advantages I may posses, can only matter so much since while in college, social status is hard to define since so many people live off of Mommy and Daddy's money here. Furthermore, these women are all caught up in getting educated, so hooking up is the way to do it while your commitments to school are high, but as low as they acceptably can be for men and potential male prospects.

It is so painfully obvious just how the crave for children is in these women though. It honestly is so hilarious just how they make so much of their focus about how they are a dog mom and demand that you love their dog as much as they do. These women usually are 18-24 and are quite simply just replacing childbirth with pet adoption. Not to say I don't have a cat and think of myself as a single dad to the little guy and all; also, getting a pet is good and humane. However, the attitude I see here with women is that it is imperative for them, almost as if they'd be left so lonely and hopeless without it, hence, why it is like a quasi-child/baby to them.

Man oh man, is Tinder just unbelievably just filled with girls in need of additional Instagram attention. I think what has started to happen is that women now know they can be out-followed online unless they don't go out and "advertise" through 3rd party sources. It just seems to me that as if a good 65-75% of the women are just there for the validation and the boom of followers. Luckily, I don't even use Instagram, or any social media besides this (if Reddit even counts) so I can't even drool over any of them like a Blue Pill man is right now. Men, especially you young ones like myself, please, stop giving attention to these women through the internet. I absolutely love the internet, I was born after it was made and it provides a crucial tool for everything I do in my life, but I see it as a utility for a different and wider variety of purposes.

It has to be our job as men to systematically destroy the current status quo and fundamentals that keep this odd, but modern use of technology in the favor of women ongoing. Many of these girls have absolutely nothing in their bio's, you basically as a man have to "woo" them with comedy, or some recently googled pickup line that you go to the 5th page to find because she probably heard the first 40 you found already. It's like a fucking sports arena where men dance around with peacock feathers auditioning for female companionship doing weird and silly things in order to have the conversation last longer than 4 messages each way. Furthermore, it is almost impossible to pinpoint what they even want. This forces men to do what women always want us to do but never admit: guess, but guess right. It is just so sad to me how so many of these girls are just absent of personality, virtue, values, and the ability to engage in real, honest, and intelligent conversation.

We shall see how the rest of this summer goes, I am planning on really taking control over my mental health and body. I have had nothing but a life of struggle and hardship and I need to turn that shit around. I have made commitment after commitment to better myself and haven't followed through. I now realize, that as a MGTOW, I can just do whatever the fuck I want to do. All of the goals I set, are usually socially defined and female guided because that's how a man is supposed to be. I just want to be better because life will be better, I want to work out more because it's objectively healthier to do so. I want to read more because it is objectively better than watching Netflix all day long. I want to continue investing even more of money in the pot stocks because hey, I am a Stoner MGTOW, I like my weed, and I understand investing at a novice enough level to realize just how crazy this industry will be over the next decade as it will help me pay back my shitty "American Government Guaranteed" student loans. I can't even get my blue pill friends who also smoke regularly to look into this potential boom, and when their credit scores are too fucked to buy a car, much less a Tesla or a future Electric Benz, I won't be there to co-sign! I hope the state of affairs get better, I'll do my part.

EDIT: a few minor spelling errors