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[–]RedPilledSimp3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Wall of txt warning. I'll try to make a tl;dr after I'm done.
OP, I'm going to generalize a lot on my response. Knowing there will be exceptions to what I'm saying. From what I've seen, IMO India is one of the bluest pilled countries I know. Together with a chocking religious fanatism, tribal mentality and complete over the top traditionalism and family addiction. I'm not from India (EU), and Indian people are a highly respected minority in our part of the world. Most of the men I meet are wonderful guys. One of my best friends' parents came from India. He was born here but is "full blood" Indian. And I've dealt with other people from your (former) part of the world. The women OTOH... The level of disgusting entitlement has IMO a direct relationship from which caste she's been spawned. I see them as the absolute least approachable women of all sorts/ races/ kinds and geological background. Even when I was BP AF I wouldn't even start a conversation with a bullet hole between their eyes girl/ woman, unless the situation demanded that. So that attitude is making the fact there are 1.3B people in India alone a complete mystery for me. Regarding your situation. I advice you to try to look through that "traditionalism and family BS." And look at the facts. 1 your dick won't grow in size using a pump. It's genetically fixed. Like your body length, skin color etc. That goes for everyone. Yes you might squeeze our a few mm more with a pump but nothing significant. The pump is meant for men who are partially impotent to draw blood into their penis. But more important: what makes you think you would be good enough if you could increase your dick size? Either go away from the RP/ MGTOW or swallow this pill: You. Are. Never. Ever. Good. Enough. Period. It's that simple. Look at Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, Jeff Bezos (Amazon) to name a few extreme successful men. On a level of success I can't imagine being more successful in life. Where they good enough? Same goes for me and every men on this planet. That's one of the honey traps of women. The first 2 weeks to 3 months tops it's heaven. And I believe they mean it genuinely but sooner or later she will get dissatisfied and take you for granted. Feminism is fueling that to the max. Hence all the misery stories you read about marriage and insane behavior of women. I believe the latter are still exceptions but on a lower scale all women have this "instinct" of acting insane. It'd be too complicated to explain this in the full. my txt wall is already too long now. Last: I hope you can shrug off your "loyalty" to your family. IMO from the tribal mentality people form India (and other parts of the world) still believe children are their old age security. So your family will push you to marriage, even forcing you into it if you keep believing the BS. Family? Those are people who share some molecules with you. That's it. I have close friends who I love more than my molecule sharers. What I said: the Indian men I met were/ are great guys. You make the best friends one can imagine.
So, in your case, you have the choice: walk away from the BS and focus on yourself and shine or go onto the treadmill and have a miserable life.
tl;dr. IMO India is the main Blue pilled nation. GYOW is an excellent and at the moment very good alternative.
[–]AnIndianMGTOW1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah I agree with most of what you said. Thanks! I disagree about what you said about family. At the end of the day, the only people in my life who will always have my back and never backstab me are my parents. But yeah, I need to focus on my own happiness!
[–]RedPilledSimp0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well I didn't mean to say to drop your family like a stone but also I've read stories about family members backstabbing that person as easily as a stranger. Indeed: focus on your own happiness and thrive in life. It's yours after all and nobody else's.
[–]ConstantChinner2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you are happy with your dick, that is all that matters. MGTOW men really don't give a shit what used up THOTS think of them anyway.
[–]AnIndianMGTOW1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah it's around average but my old gf was a total whore
[–]returnitback0071 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Speaking as an Indian Mgtow living in India I think I can give you some perspective.
And the undeniable fact is, (whether you like it or not), that size matters.
Yes it does and I am sorry buddy that sucks for you. But speaking from my experience and what I have seen around me even ripped guys who look fantastic have been cheated. One of my friends who is 6'2 has a six pack and quite intelligent was cheated on by his GF. His very good looking model girlfriend left him for a richer guy. I have also seen a guy who is a senior executive in an advertising firm being cheated upon by his wife with a 22 year old waiter. So,women do not need a reason to cheat on you. That can happen even you are perfect. So, you are not missing anything.
And I need to find happiness through doing what I love, being successful, and having a fun life when I'm not working
You already have the answer. In India our ancient culture (Particularly Hinduism) lays stress on self fulfillment and spirituality as tools for salvation. It is said that you can find true meaningful everlasting happiness only when you find your purpose. For most blue-pilled people it is about finding love,having kids and making money. But your knowledge gives you an opportunity to find your own purpose. Just focus on you goals and work hard on you studies. Try to work out but don't do it to impress girls. A fit mind needs a fit body. Try to achieve financial independence through saving,investment and your job. Try to read about things that fascinate or interest you. Increase your knowledge and shapen your mind.Last and the most important thing is to develop a hobby. For ex. if you desire to go for body building try to set a timeline for getting a body shape in a particular period ,like say 6 months. Once you make yourself busy you won't have time to think about women at all and be depressed about it. And once you are a man of status women will come to you. Maybe they will come for money,fame or status but they will come. It is up to you and your good judgement what you want to do with them.
[–]nefratsu0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I will put it in simple words , focus on your goals so much that you don’t have the time to think about useless things like women , relationships , penis size etc.
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