Literally—don't raise other people's children, don't have kids with a stripper, don't give women any power over your life: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3JbjrGT84xk

tl;dr guy raises Chad's kids, gets divorce-raped by stripper, gets a warrant for his arrest put out on Christmas Eve for failure to pay child support, stabs his ex-stripper to death, and gets 23-to-life on a 2nd degree murder charge