I expressly forbade myself from attempting to get a girl's phone number or have any kind of relationship, even just one time sex. With all the pressure off I found it easier and easier to not care what other people thought and just be myself. I would go out and talk to anyone in any situation and leave them with a smile. Every interaction was a learning opportunity.

The more confident I became the more people wanted to be my friend and hang around me. I made several women friends and one of them introduced me to my wife.

It seems like a cliche but it is true: the more you desperate you are to have a relationship the less likely anyone will want to have one with you. When you learn how to accept yourself and be OK with being alone that confidence is attractive.

Simp think confidence helped him find a unicorn. He missed the red pill.