So /r/theredpill, I have a bad case of oneitis. I need advice!

socal83 · 2013-05-31T00:32:22+00:00

but I have definitely become an alpha since then

The other day when we were hanging out, I know I could have at least kissed her again after two years if I would have had another ten minutes alone with her

lol.

why the fuck are you on the internet looking for advice about your oneitis if you're such an alpha

really, i'm curious how you've hamstered your way into this one.

RedSunBlue · 2013-05-31T00:37:01+00:00

Should I continue to pursue her and try to get her to date me again?

No.

Is it time to give up on dating her?

Yes.

Should we remain friends? I could see myself marrying her.

You haven't read the sidebar. You should read the sidebar.

She is essentially the perfect girl for me.

You know that there are at least several hundred thousand women in the world who likely fit your criteria for "the perfect girl" for you, don't you?

If I do continue to pursue her, should I not be as willing to bend over backwards for her? Should I not be as available? She is not like most women, and I don't want to push her away.

Are you a troll?

I broke up with the girl of my dreams because I was an idiot, what do I do?

Read the sidebar.

[deleted] · 2013-05-31T00:42:10+00:00

I would laugh at you if I wasn't in the same situation as you once upon a time. Now I'm just sad.

Run fucker, run. She's poison to you.

AlwaysLateToThreads · 2013-05-31T01:05:01+00:00

I can only get over oneitis by no longer initiating contact with the source and being short whenever she initiates contact with me. Eventually she'll fade away. As long as I hold on, oneitis will rear its ugly head.

Also stop being a bitch. I hope this helps!

Title	So /r/theredpill, I have a bad case of oneitis. I need advice!
Author	bad_case_of_oneitis
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	May 31, 2013 12:12 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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