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Asking women out has been reduced to mindgames.

Jayboy777

May 14, 2019
21 upvotes
/r/MGTOW

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I get he has \"game\" but it's kinda stupid that women test you like this, like they're playing some kind of game. I guess that's why they call it having game because that's what they do. You have to jump thru hoops, get shit tested just for them to go out on a simple date with you. Had he replied with the \"wrong answer\" she would've simply moved onto the next one who had a more wittier response. Is this all that dating is reduced to, a mind game?

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Title Asking women out has been reduced to mindgames.
Author

Jayboy777

Upvotes 21
Comments 8
Date May 14, 2019 2:14 PM UTC
(7 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/bojgha/asking_women_out_has_been_reduced_to_mindgames/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/asking-women-out-has-been-reduced-to-mindgames.466060
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Comments

[–]cafeorange7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She made an excuse to cover how badly she want the D

[–]shetoldmeto805 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is merely a very simple but classic case of 4D chess push-pull...

[–]Launch_Day_My_Dudes2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Imagine a computerized chessboard where the rules change every other day for no discernible rhyme or reason, and with no warning.

That wouldn’t be a game. That would just be a frustrating waste of time.

Calling dating a game implies that there are clear and consistent rules than can be learned and mastered. But women, being women, can change and throw out the rules with no provocation. The shit test can have a different correct answer depending on her time of the month.

Dating’s not a game. It’s worse.

[–]ghostops31 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There's no game involved Either you're attractive or not If you're attractive you don't have to put any effort just aske her out she'll go with you If you aren't well good luck they'll do anything to not go on a date with you It's binary attractive and well off or unattractive and poor. Ans: no woman goes for second option Unless he's somehow unattractive and very rich

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well I work as a cashier at a grocery store and a girl I work with that recently just transferred always comes to my aisle to talk to me, initiates just about every convo, is that her showing attractive? Please understand the question was rhetorical but if you believe women don't play games then I don't know what else I can tell you.

[–]JihadNinjaCowboy0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That wasn't even really a real mind game. That is like mind game light.

She was only probing her interest without committing to asking him formally to save face from potential rejection, until she knew what the answer would be.

There are some women out there that go all the way from full on shit tests up to Ramsay Bolton level mind games.

It has probably ALWAYS been a mind game. It is probably why human speech and humor evolved in the first place: as a sexual selection method for women to choose between men (as a means to secure resources)

[–]Currinomics0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women have this internal movie that is their life going on. It wouldn't be too melodramatic if everything is straightforward.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women will lower their standards for certain guys. Definitely for Chad or Tyrone. They hate living up to societal expectations so they put on a front to hide their true nature.

Game is only like 5-10% of the equation. The rest is looks, money, status. I’d even say bad boy. Anything that can give her tingles.

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