Be me. It's the beginning of junior year, High School, and there are some fine ass girls in my class. But me, I'm a skinny ass, glasses wearing, acne faced, greasy haired kid and have no idea how to even talk to girls. Stumble upon this sub, TheRedPill. Read all the sidebar information and bless the gods that I have found such amazing knowledge. Instantly ask dad for gym membership and start lifting. Instantly ask mom for contacts and haircut. Starting to feel good about myself and now practicing game with girls at school. Instant success. Girls actually like new me and I have options. Go on a few dates, turn one girl off due to almost hitting her with my car and being flaky because I'm still a beta deep down. Finally manage to click with one girl and land myself in a relationship. A month goes by... sex is good, relationship good, almost completely forgot about TRP because this shit was so easy. Gets a mega shit test one day and fails miserably. Mad bitch wants to break up unless I accept her conditions. Beta me accepts conditions. Beta me then keeps failing shit tests from her over and over again. 7 months later I get dumped by the now oneitis, spend months feeling like world has ended and that my life was over.

Well life isn't over and I feel like I've learned so much since then. I'm not 100% sure if something like this belongs on the sub but I just wanted to share why frame and TRP are so important beyond all the PUA stuff. While it was my first relationship and I was bound to make mistakes here and there, but thinking back if I would have kept with TRP things would have ended much differently. It doesn't matter if your 2 weeks or 8 months into a relationship or plate or whatever. As soon as the girl smells a whiff of frame loss, she will test you with shit. She is checking whether or not your able to recover or keep your frame under stressful conditions. Hell even when your shit is together girls are still going to test you, and recognizing this is essential to keeping plates spinning and keeping the girl you enjoy fucking around. So keep your shit on lock and get your ducks in a row. Peace.