Long story short I live in China and my British friend is in a relationship with a Chinese girl. She's not some crazy feminazi by any means, she's quite nice actually, but she keeps trying to push him for marriage and to have a baby.

For e.g. tonight we were dining with some other friends and having a good time, he told me that he met her mom today for the first time. However, at some point during dinner they were talking about it and I overheard the conversation while talking with another friend.

She was telling him that he may be a daddy in the near future, but he jokingly said that he needs to learn Cantonese before that happens (since we are in Guangdong province) which is an extremely complicated language that would take him years.

This is not the first time that I overhear him jokingly delaying engagements like marriage and babies. Also I asked him before when he is going to marry his girlfriend and he said "oh probably never, you know me and marriage", he has shown red pill knowledge before.

I want to pull him over the line because he is a nice guy in every aspects and a pretty successful entrepreneur. However I believe that he is with his girlfriend only because of societal pressure and because it's what's expected from men when they become successful.

Have you gents red pilled friends or acquaintances before? How did you do it? Do you think it's a good idea to be bold about it and to kind of pull him over the fence or should I be more subtle?