If you found out your were a product of an affair between a stranger and your mother and your current ‘father’ never knew, what would you do?

Raddyrode · 2019-05-10T11:34:51+00:00

DNA test so everyone knows the truth. Science is more reliable than trust

DangZagnut · 2019-05-10T11:36:59+00:00

I'm a product of rape, but dad was aware.

noongi · 2019-05-10T11:43:37+00:00

OP I can see you're angry at your mom here but physical violence against your mom won't change anything. It's a heavy burden to bear but you should take a DNA test to prove it and if it's the case then I would spare your father and keep a permanent close watch on your mother.

smurfymuffins · 2019-05-10T15:07:14+00:00

I wouldn’t tell my father, because what he doesn’t know won’t hurt him (my mother and father are divorced already). But I would 100% drop contact with my mom.

DrFeelFantastic · 2019-05-10T12:05:34+00:00

I'd drop hints to see if he knew. If he didn't, or seemed like he'd react badly to knowing, I probably wouldn't tell him. I wouldn't hurt my Mother physically but I'd definetly have her thinking about what she done. I wouldn't have her deported. Also don't assume the man just hasn't looked because he doesn't care, in a situation like that it's possible the real Dad has no idea the child exists.

Tracynmega · 2019-05-10T12:11:41+00:00

DNA test just because and love your “step” Dad a lot more

Forgive your mother for you are the greater person

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2019-05-10T12:13:33+00:00

1) tell dad, 2) search for Bio dad cause he has a right to know.. 3) Out mom to everyone I know, explain the situation and hope my dads will get along.

DannyTTT55 · 2019-05-10T12:15:12+00:00

That would really suck

I would still love my father and thank him for supporting me. I would probably give him a bunch if money too after the inevitable divorce

CiceroVoltaire · 2019-05-10T12:58:14+00:00

If you have a DNA test, tell the man who thought he was your father.

It's likely your biological father never knew you were his because your mother never told him.

All roads lead back to the cheating thot mother (assuming she was with both men at the same time, in a committed relationship with one of these men).

Your mother knew or at least was aware of the probability that the man who raised you isn't your father.

Tell her she is dead to you, and don't look back. If the man you thought was your father is a man, he will leave her too, while protecting any assets and wealth he has, move them, and just leave, disappear one day, unexpectedly, with his assets, file for divorce when he's secured himself. That will be her punishment, a life alone in old age is the worst thing that can happen to a woman who had a family. Be clear so she understands it's her actions and lies that destroyed the family, don't let her shame or blame anyone else.

No physical violence is necessary, the above should be sufficient.

RedMeatTrinket · 2019-05-10T13:30:03+00:00

I would tell my father and ask for his help in finding my real father.

sickdrupaler · 2019-05-10T20:06:31+00:00

Get him a matching 23 and Me DNA kit for Father's Day and take one for yourself. Then have a party when you cherish the results

Gfeeny · 2019-05-10T20:18:26+00:00

Why would you ever hold that from your father

Title	If you found out your were a product of an affair between a stranger and your mother and your current ‘father’ never knew, what would you do?
Author	Anomalistic_Username
Upvotes	7
Comments	19
Date	May 10, 2019 11:33 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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