Disadvantages of dating a Chinese girl

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I want to post this to see if any of you guys are experiencing something similar. I've tried dating a few Chinese girls but the disadvantages seem to greatly outweigh the advantages. This has been my experience:

Disadvantages:

  • Chinese girlfriend expects me to pay for everything. (She uses her own money to buy herself iPhones, MacBooks, etc.)
  • Extremely clingy. She wants to spend 24/7 next to me. I get no time for myself.
  • Pushing hard for marriage and babies after a few weeks.
  • Has no interest in learning or reading (apart from weibo nonsense) so having a decent conversation is nigh impossible.
  • Has all sorts of stupid beliefs (including "most foreigners are bad") and seems to think science is something bad.
  • Constantly fears I am cheating yet has secretive conversations with men on weixin.
  • Some risk she will turn psycho after we break up. Thinks revenge is acceptable.

Advantages:

  • Sex on demand. (She will either be a "foreigners have an open mind so I can live my fantasies" person or she will be like a corpse in bed).
  • She helps me learn Chinese.

My problem is the sex on demand advantage gets tired very quickly. I get about three weeks of enjoyment out of it and then she just becomes a burden: an expensive, unopinionated princess. It would be cheaper to hire a Chinese teacher and pay for hand jobs.

Western women seem to be a much better bet.

Are any of you experiencing anything similar to this?