At what point would your girls spending habits be a deal breaker?

10,715 points•1,884 comments•submitted by master-of-someDo you even flair bro? to r/AskMenHe’s falling for it.

My gf can’t afford her full rent on a 38k salary and yet she still eats out everyday, and will willingly drop $70 - $80 on a full price shirt or pair of jeans because “it’s cute”.

We are still dating but she’s been making comments about combining our incomes and I’m honestly kinda scared that she will run us both into debt based on her spending habits.

EDIT: getting a lot of responses here so I will try to answer questions. Forgot to mention I am 24M and she is 23F. She does feel guilty about her spending and regrets what she buys but she still keeps doing it. I do not want to just dump her I want to try and teach her fiscal responsibly since her parents never taught her. Her mom was over 20k in debt before she married my gfs dad and her dad bailed the mom out.

EDIT2: forgot more critical info, my salary is 50k and we have been together for 2.5 years and we do not live together