I hope somebody will find this post interesting. English is not my native language, sorry in advance for wrong grammar and spelling errors.

Bit of my background: I am 34 y.o orignally from post-Soviet state, however I was living for about 10 years in Western World (now in Germany). I am bilingual, first mother language is Romanian and second one is Russian. I was standard beta male until 3 years ago when I divorced (back then I was 31). Now I am weekend father (I have a son).

My ex-wife was my first (and only) gf I ever dated (until divorce). In total we lived together exactly 10 years. Immediately after divorce, I felt need to date, you now, to go out with some women... not a big deal - told me my beta mind. However, I was horrified when I found out how difficult it was, this status quo pushed me to take red pill. Then I followed TRP standard advices - hit the gym, educate yourself, make money.

Panic attack followed anyway. My small, hypnotized beta mind never thought dating a woman in West will be huge issue. Back in my original country from Eastern-Europe - you must be an absolute retard to have the women problem. Even after one year, after which I upgraded myself (gym+ , style++, confidence+) getting a women in West is still problematic though I have tried all fronts - going to night clubs, dance classes, other social events, online dating - I found myself spending lots of time on this problem - which is not a good sign.

Change came when I tried dating in Easter Europe, after all I have two aces at hand - I am fluent in Russian and I can work remote :). Not only it made a HUGE difference it - it was fun as well.

I will be more specific. Using Tinder for 3 months in Germany (Berlin, so, big city) I barely ended with 5 matches of chicks below 4. Switching Tinder in Moskow, same Tinder profile, in 2 weeks I had 120 matches :) and matches with real profiles. I went to Moskow, St. Petersburg, Kiev and Thailand (Thailand is place were asian part of Russia's chicks have their vacation - thai is full of Russian chicks - I never dated an Asian, for some reason, most of them I don't find them attractive).

I won't go in details of all my crazy adventures and will not bore you will same standard advices like you hit the gym, learn confidence etc etc. I just want to highlight that for me, big difference made changing environment and applying my Russian language skills. No bragging, but in I won't be able to remember all hot chicks I banged in russian speaking world - just lost their count. This is very opposite of how my things go here in Germany - in 3 years I slept only with 2 women :( Both of them below average :(.

My advice:

  1. Invest time learning Russian.

  2. Whatever myths about Russian speaking world you heard (e.g. they all drink vodka instead of coffee and carry a kalashnikov instead of mobile in their pockets) are wrong! Most parts of Russia, Ukraine, Belarus and whatever post-soviet state - are very safe!

  3. Post-soviet states are very westernized nowadays. One of huge differences is that somehow feminism could not penetrate there. Plus, chicks are much more open for dating, sex and LTR.

Learning Russian language carries good payoffs:

  1. You keep your brain busy
  2. You will open for yourself a new world not yet (so) spoiled by capitalism and feminism.
  3. Consider this: up until 1992, Soviet Union covered an area of 1/6 (sixth) of Earth's surface land! All that space up until today is Russian speaking - and it is full with hot, educated, open minded chicks !
  4. In my personal opinion the Soviet Cinema (which you can google and watch for free online) was the best in the world - because they managed to do amazing movies without sex and violence - the cinema part is here because you have available good, high quality content for listening skills.

If you have questions I will gladly answer.