I've always thought about a variety of things a lot, and my last marriage gave me a great opportunity to think a lot more than usual.

One topic that I thought about a lot, and have tried to implement in my life as much as possible, is not letting someone else that is toxic to you to have purchase in your mind. I'm sure everyone here has heard this in a variety of ways, but it's only said and not talked about.

I want to talk just a second on this. One of the things that we all have to do in life is to find a bit of purpose, or a purpose for a specific part of our life. Having that anger from a woman is giving her free attention, and taking away that purpose. It's what she wanted when she was with you, and after she's gone you still do it. Getting out of the comfort zone means moving past something, growing in some way, and one way of doing that is to release this attachment you had to her, which includes to stop complaining about her.

A lot of guys are here that don't like the power women have because they're unreasonable powers backed by the state. Ok, so we have that. Now, instead of giving them purchase by shaming them the way they do, or complaining non-stop about them the way they want, it's a form of jealousy that they wanted in you to begin with, and are now exhibiting after she's gone. Release it.

It takes focus and self-awareness, and those two things you do deserve in your life.....give those purchase instead of her. Make yourself do it.