Hey guys, I have a long story(I think) about one of my bestfriends who fell in love with a girl in highschool. We call each other as brothers(I have my 2 brothers included in this story and I will call the other one as "GYOW mate" or "GYOW bro"). We met each other in highschool, we are still brothers in different universities as we are keeping the company. One of my bros were following his own way with me without knowing. However, one of them wasn't.

In 11st grade we became close friends, after 3 months I met with him since his ideology, his interests are almost the same with me. One day, he wanted to talk with me about something. I was wondering what he was going to tell me about. He told me that he was liking one of the students in 10th grade. I have been going my own way with my other bestfriend(GYOW mate) even though we weren't aware of it by avoiding any teen love drama. We told him the same and adviced him to shouldn't get closer to her who you don't know about even though he could.

After that day, he informed my GYOW mate and me. He told us that she accepted going out with her and he was very happy and excited. I was happy and also worried for him to be honest(I was happy only for hearing his excitement). Then they went together, to the point when me and my GYOW brother barely could enjoy our breaks since he had to see her every break. I was a bit worried about the possibility of she could break up with him and leaving him devastated and heart-broken. My other friend basicly thought the same but we decided to remain silent.

After we graduate and start the second half of the final year of our highschool, me and my GYOW bro wanted to talk with him about this since he wasn't aware of it was becoming a toxic relationship. We finally found him after searching the whole school for 10 mintues and talked with him. He was surprisingly aware of our worryings and what we were thinking but he believed that this wasn't the same and they were trusting each other. We remained silent and agreed with him. We were there to support him in every way we could without damaging the brotherhood between each other.

Time flies, we graduate and aim for the same university since we didn't want to break apart from each other. In my country there is a system designed and regulated for getting into an university by listing 20 known universities in order, placing the university in the first position we aim and hope our university exam mark and city ranking would be enough to get the first positioned university in the list. Unfortunately, I couldn't get in the same university with my brothers, however, my GYOW bro was lucky and they got in the same university. Well, this never wasn't enough to break our brotherhood. We had social media contacts woth each other, I was coming back to the city I lived to meet with my family and my bros. My brother was still in that relationship but it became toxic for some reason(now,the reasons I know about). He was lucky to have my GYOW mate with him to be honest. He told us about she suddenly informed him about her dream school in Montenegro and he was very concerned about his relationship since he sensed that she was trying to break up with him. She told him that her parents were also forcing her into studying abroad. Me and my GYOW mate were very worried for him. We tried our best to explain the situation and tell him to leave her if she wanted so. We succeed, however, he decided to just wait what could come out of that situation.

One morning in my dorm, I got a call from my brother. I answered him. He told me that she broke up with him. I told him I was very sorry for you, me and my GYOW bro were expecting it. We met in the underground train the next day after I came back to my city. We spent the day with all 3 of us. It was great to have each other in the brotherhood, it is the real support. We adviced him to not getting in a relationship since it only creates problem out of nowhere and the fact that you didn't need it. He promised us he wouldn't get in any other relationship except if his ex wants him back if she fails to go abroad for studying(facepalm). Then we all promised each other to go our own way.

Almost 1 year later, in my dorm(again), my GYOW bro messaged me and informed me about his ex's dreams didn't come true. We were expecting the same, she would want him back. I remembered him our promise but decided to do nothing about it(I regret), since our brother was still "in-love" and wouldn't pay attention to us. After one week, he messaged me and my GYOW mate that they are in relationship with each other again. I came back to the city when he messaged us. Then he called and wanted to meet us in a cafe he was there. We met up in cafe but there was something different. His girlfriend was also there. We have seen her several times 1 year ago and we knew who she is since he introduced her to us. I could say that this wasn't a very unpleasant thing to happen to us, so my GYOW bro and I stood there till the end of the day but we still could tell that she was probably still toxic as she was(she is).

After 2 months when I have discovered MGTOW, I suddenly got a message from our simp brother, saying "We broke up. Again." Since I went back to the city where I contiune my university, I only could group call him with my GYOW brother. We literally spitted redpills on the phone for the sake of him. On the phone, we as GYOW bros were going to try to convince him into going his own way since it is his only option to save him from the cruelty of the society around us. However, while on the call, our heartbroken brother suddenly told us that he will go his own way without knowing about what MGTOW is about actually. We agreed with him and promised each other again, but really. I think we finally redpilled him. I still feel bad about what he had to go through but I and my GYOW bro won't let him be sad and put obstacles in his way anymore, no matter what...

So guys, this is my MGTOW story here. If you ask about me, I have never been in a relationship with a female and I don't care about it. I was a core MGTOW even though I didn't know anything about what MGTOW was actually, like my GYOW bro or GYOW mate(whatever you call it, he was always on my side :D). I value my time, my money, my interests, my progress, my future and most importantly, my brothers more than everything now and I swear I won't mess it up. From now, I will redpill my brothers more and more and let them know about this subreddit. I want my heartbroken bro to pick the way of success for his own sake because we care about each other. This is brotherhood!

Go your own way guys!