I'm in my 20's and have seen first hand how messed up relationships can be, so I avoided them and just 'had fun'. Well 'fun' can come at a cost. Today I've just been cobtacted by a previous partner I used to have 'fun' with and told that they have and STD and don't know who they caught it rom. So maybe I'm infected. Since that partner I've had 'fun' with other partners and they probably have done the same. Now I have to try and contain the infection. So what have I learned from this? Go your own way and keep the jam in your pants! If you can't resist, which I can't so very often, USE PROTECTION!